Sherine Lim

Definitely A Very Memorable Experience In My Life

2010-10-01T21:41:00.000-07:00

Hi, how's everybody !!! It has been almost a year that I didn't update my this blog already. What have I been busy for the whole year ?

Yeah !!! I have went through a very memorable stage of my life. I have delivered a very very cute baby girl named Jacquelyn Wong Jia Qi and for the whole year, busy for her only !!! Busy for this little cute cute baby, busy for husband, busy for housework, busy for business, busy for everything. 24 hours a day is just too little for me !!!

Come on, let's walk through my this life stage together and share my happiness together !!!!

The Happy Family : My Hubby, My Little Princess and Myself at her Fullmoon Dinner Celebration !!!

My body is still very weak eventhough already fullmoon, still always feel so cool and weak.

This is my confinement lady loh - Ah Lin Jie !!!

This is Me - the mummy and the little Princess - Jacquelyn Wong. Since she was borned, the mummy and daddy becomes so busy. Daddy has even purposely created a blog for her and the mummy has always update the blog no matter how busy she is. Wanna to see her growing and all lovely photos ????? Just click : http://www.jacquelynwong.blogspot.com/ and you will sure love her very very much !!!

This is her fullmoon cakes to be distributed to those relatives and friends who didn't attend her fullmoon dinner.

What is inside the Fullmoon Cake package ? A cake, 4 red eggs and a packet of marinated gingers. Of course, again, the effort and creativity of her daddy, to make a very very pretty photo of her to be give away together with this Fullmoon package. So nice and thoughtful of him to do so much for this little princess !!!

This is the cover of the Fullmoon Package cover, where the shop is unable to print our lovely beloved baby's photo on it, as such, the daddy needs to print out himself a separate photo of herself to give to all our friends and relatives.

This is the ME and SHE during the confinement period. Can't wash hair, take smelly bath, stay in the room only, but so happy to be with this little princess everyday and every moment. She looks much different now if compared to this new born photo. Time really fly so fast, very fast !!!

See, the HER, first time come to the world, eyes still close, still sleeping, right after come out from mummy's tummy. So tired lah, after so many hours of struggling around. It's time to take a good rest. This is her first look !!!!

First time mummy meets the baby, she cry so loud but she looks happy. Mummy and daddy also feel so happy and would like to welcome you to our family, the WONG's family !!!! Welcome, Jacquelyn !!!

See, the mummy is still very weak after delivered, face still look so peel and white.

See, this little one in her sweet dream bed, so sweet and nice !!!

She quick quick give a beep on this world befoe going to sleep, to see her mummy and daddy first, right after come out from the dark dark place.

This is really suffering time, I actually scolded my husband for still taking photo at this very moment where I suffered from the pain till want to die already, he still taking photo and not console me, but now I appreciated it very very much, luckily at that very moment, he still managed to take some photos which is very very valuable for me now, to keep it as memory and for remembrance. Thanks ! Lao Kong for being so nice and understanding !!!!

I pain till cannot tahan and need to use this machine to control the pain, I keep sucking the oxygen and make myself feel numb and temporary forgot about the painfulness, until very last moment, I can't tahan, I decided to take the epidural at the end. Each epidural costs about RM 1,200. Wow ! Good effect, after the injection, much much better and relief !!!!

My husband is still in Indonesia when my airbag burst, I called him immediately and ask him take the earliest flight back from Jakarta, and I keep telling my baby that she must wait for baby to come back. Finally, yes, daddy is back !!!

See, this is the picture where I was sent into the delivery room, this moment still feeling ok and not so pain, still can smile. I was admitted to the hospital at about 9am in the morning and daddy reached the KPJ Kajang Specialist Hospital at about 4.30pm and I delievered at about midnight. So suffered for about 13 hours. Good experience ya !!!!

See, this photo was taken 9 days before I delivered, the stomach is so big and heavy, even when I walk, I also feel so difficult. Really heavy !!!!

I feel so heavy but still work, my father sent me to work everyday and fetch me back home cause my parents said it's too dangerous to drive at this stage. So................. so xin fu loh !!!!

So fat ya !!!! I have been putting on weight about 26 kgs when I delivered. I totally didn't control my diet, whatever I want to eat, I just eat, I don't care of fat and obesity, as long as my baby is healthy and ok, I am ok.

Photo to see my back side, my front look, my left and right look !!!! So fat ya !!!!

Until now, my baby is already 10 months, I still cannot believe that my stomach can put in a baby, a big big baby, when she was borned, she is 3.09kg.

Purposely take this photos to keep it as memory.

Lao Kong's Birthday Celebration - Part 2 Only Both Us

2009-09-16T00:12:00.000-07:00

Now, it's the real big day for my Lao Kong !!! It's his birthday real day liao - 07/09/2009 !!!

Early in the morning, we are still in Seremban house, as usual, made him his favourite morning drink - a cup of hot ' gau gau ' Milo to make up his day, then turn him into a handsome goodlooking guy with a white new shirt.

Before he wakes up from the bed, I already put his birthday gift and the birthday card on the bed, next to him, where once he turns his back to the side I slept, he will see this.

Surprise !!!! Definitely it's a surprise because the night before his birthday, before we slept, I tested him by telling him that I didn't buy any gift for him this year and ask for his wish list, like what he wants and what he wish to get. My Lao Kong, as usual, " tim yan no need bun ", he asked me for a budget, I said approximately RM 500, he told me that all the gifts that he wants, I can't buy him with this little budget, My God !!! See, this is my hubby !!! He wants a Plasma 42" TV, all the things that he wants is more than RM 1,000. Really a high maintenance husband !!!!

Ok, then I asked him to guess what have I bought him. He is clever enough, once he touched the gift, his first answer is correct liao. But I told him it's wrong ! Coz his guess is like this : " Oh My God ! Don't tell me you are buying me an electronic shaver !!! " With this kind of guessing, of course my answer is NO !!! And my heart became so cold ! Shit ! Another wrong decision made ??????? What lah ! It sounded like this is the most un-expected and most in-wanted gift for him. At the end, what to do, no choice, I bought it liao, he got to accept it loh !!! Sorry lah, dear for giving you something you really don't want !

Okay, after breakfast at Seremban and settled something with his family members, we start our birthday celebration journey from Seremban. First destination, ( this was not within my plan ) as it was suggested by mu hubby, to go to Port Dickson to look for Ah Tin for lunch with Ling Ling and Jun Jun. I didn't take a picture for the lunch, it's at a well known PD seaside Seafood Restaurant. We ordered sharksfin, pork, fruit juice and etc. Today it's also first time I used my new Platinum credit card. Ha !!!!

Then, we left PD at about 2.30pm and go to Sepang Gold Coast Beach Resort. A newly build resort and we pretended that we are interested to buy the resort there, as my Lao Kong said, we being Datuk and Datin for a day !!! Hahhahahahaha......................... My Lao Kong's performance is really good neh, he really take it seriously and asked a lot of questions, we even went to the site to see the show units. Nice !

Just that both us are too busy to be Datuk and Datin at that time, also forgot to take any picture of the resort. Hhahahahahahahhaa.................

Finally, after spending 2 hours plus at the resort, we start our journey to Putrajaya for the birthday dinner. I made a reservation at Putrajaya newest hotel - 5-star Pullman Resort for a western dinner celebration.

And, here are some photos of the western restaurant, by the lake one, where we have our dinner.

Nice view from the restaurant to see the viewing tower of the lake, this is the place where we watched the Boat Racing Competition during the Dumpling Festival this year.

Me and the birthday man !!! Cheers !!!! The starter, bread, not good !

Lao Kong's cocktail also not good.

In general, only the view is good, restaurant is nice, food wise, first and the last time loh ! Won't come back for food anymore.

The happy forever couple !!!

This is what I ordered, Cajun Chicken, strongly recommended by the Restaurant Captain. Looks good, presentation is good. but the taste, suck !!!! I can't even finished 10% of the food. Just simply paid for the view and atmosphere only.

This is my hubby's birthday dinner, Fish. He is good, he don't waste food one, he finished everything. It's worth that my hubby likes the place, to pay for that kind of price, just to earn his smile, it's worth for everything liao. Coz my hubby's happiness is my only intention mah !

The whole presentation of the birthday dinner !!!

My beloved birthday Lao Kong !

Nice ya, the evening view ! I almost booked the restaurant exclusively for my Lao Kong on that evening, coz we reached there at 7pm, and till 8.30pm, after we almost finished our dinner, we were the only customer for the restaurant. And for the whole night, only 3 tables. The crowd is really slow.

Night view !

This is the photo taken after our dinner. Everything cleared !

All in all, it's a very nice birthday celebartion. Simple, no gimmick, no special surprises, except for the special designed birthday cake, everything just so simple and normal, but both us are very happy.

Lao Kong, next year, we will be celebrating your birthday and my birthday with our cute cute little baby girl loh !!!! Happy Happy Happy Birthday to you !!!!

I love you forever !!!!

Lao Kong's Birthday Celebration - Part 1 Family

2009-09-15T23:13:00.000-07:00

07/09/2009, it's my beloved Lao Kong's birthday ! This year, very special, due to co-incidence, my Lao Kong's birthday falls on a public holiday for Selangor state, so both of us no need to work, it's a Monday. But also due to some unforseen circumstances, we need to go back to Seremban house to settle some family issue, so eventhough it's a holiday, but I also can't plan anything for only both of us.

However, for so many years of birthdays for my hubby, it's his first time where so many of his family members celebrated for him. I see him happy, I also felt so happy.

See, my hubby with his face cake, he is so simple, so simple, a simple happy guy !!!

Me and my hubby, with a special made cake with his picture on the cake, first time for my hubby to received such cake !

These are my hubby's family and relatives who celebrated for him that night, at a Chinese Restaurant, we ordered set dinner with sharkfin, good meal, good atmosphere, good cake to celebrate birthday for a good person !!! A total of 14 persons in a big round table for his birthday celebration.

The right hand lady, is his " Ipoh Ku Ku " ( aunt ), the couple on the left is Ah Mou and Ah Pak loh.

We, and the only 3 grandchildren in the family, the eldest one is Ping Ping, the middle one in blue shirt is Xuan Xuan and the only girl is Xin Yee. The forth grandchildren of the family is coming soon, in my stomach !!!

See, my hubby blow the cake with his big mouth, he looks so funny in this picture, cute ya !!! I really love him, hubby hubby, hubby !!!

A lovely couple, trying to cut the cake, but have no idea from where shall we start to cut the cake, from his eyes, his nose, his mouth or from where ?????

See, his smile, so contented, so happy, so simple. A simple guy with simple satisfaction. But not at all time.................... ahahahahahhahaha.............................

My hubby really got " Fook Xiong " , he looks good in every photos ..........................

Me and my hubby's whole family .............................. Mother, why not smiling one ???

I love him, he loves me !!!

The special cake and us !!!

First, when I took out this cake, everyone on the table were so curious and excited, none of them saw this kind of cake before, something new and special to them. My mother in law said : " Ah Fai's wife always like to do something special one ! " hahhahahahha................... what to do ? My only intention is to get my hubby a smile only mah !!! What else ?

When my Lao Kong saw this cake, he himself also felt so happy and surprise !!! He also never received this kind of cake before, first time in his life. He of course love this cake, thank God ! Otherwise, wasted my effort and money ! For only a " Wow ! How come my face is on the cake one ??? " It worths for everything and anything liao ! Dear, hope you really like it !!!

So, on 06/07/2009 night, one night before his actual birthday, we celebrated his birthday with all his family and relatives, so I called this as Lao Kong's Birthday Celebration - Part 1 !!!!

Oh ya, of course, we have Part 2 loh, coming soon ! Part 1 - with family, Part 2 ? Of course only two of us only loh ................................... oh no, with our little baby as well, so 2 1/2 ................ hahahahahhhahhah..........................

This is another cute couple in my hubby's family. Ah Mou and Ah Pak !!!

Very Fatherly Character - I Like It

2009-09-15T22:58:00.000-07:00

These photos were taken in a morning where we have our breakfast in a restaurant...............

After breakfast, my hubby brought Vjinn to the main entrance of the restaurant, sat on the chairs, and start playing the bubble that my hubby bought for her.

See, both them were so concentrated on the bubble shape ..........................

He taught Vjinn how to blow the bubble, very fatherly character ya !!!! Hmmmm............... I love to see him like this ................ love children, play with kids, I can imagine next time after our little baby girl was born, he will even love her very much !!! Good daddy !!!

Come, Vjinn, " Yee Zhang " teach you how to blow a big bubble !!!

People says, when a man is concentrating in doing his job or something, at that time, he is the most attractive man in the world ! See, this is the most attractive man in my world !!! Lao Kong, I love you ! ( On behalf of our little princess ) : Daddy, I love you too !!!!

My 2009 Birthday Gift - Super Band Concert 2009

2009-09-15T21:06:00.000-07:00

Year 2009, another remarkable year for me and my hubby !!! Hhahahaa ................... especially for me only lah in fact. It's because my hubby gave me a good birthday gift - Super Band Malaysia Concert tickets !!! Wow !!!

The artists of course includes my beloved singer - Wakin Chow Wakin !!! Hahahhahaha, and another 3 singers - Zhang Zhen Yu, Lee Zhong Shen and Luo Da You !!!

Wow, this is really a very very fun and exciting night where my hubby is kind enough and generous enough to allow me and my little baby girl to go for concert eventhough I am already 6 months plus pregnant. Hhahahahahha.................... thanks, my Lao Kong for being so nice to me !!!

That night, we bought a total of 10 tickets, dickson and venice, myself and my hubby, sweetbee and CK, Lian Fung plus another 3 friends of dickson. 10 of us, with the superb view of the seat, we all enjoyed the concert very very much ! Even my little princess girl also enjoyed it very much and become so exited and active after that night ! Keep kicking me which seems like telling me that : " Mummy, I want more music !!!! " Hhahahhahahah.....................

See, the photo behind me and my beloved Lao Kong, are the 4 singers who performed that evening. Majority of the fans who attended the concert was 30 - 50 years old, and many of them came in a family group where parents came with their children for the concert together, somemore most of them ( including us ) are here just because of Wakin Chow Wakin !!!!

We took the picture before the concert starts ..................... on the spot, 988 has the ' Hoi Sam Che Dui " to give out free gifts and play games with the public. But I didn't get any gifts from them, coz by the time we reached there, already quite late.

This is the first concert which Lian Fung attended, we 3 sisters ( Da Jie, me and Ah Tin ) shared bought the ticket for him. Our seat is right in the middle of the stage, superb view !!!! The ticket that we bought is second cheapest but we bought it very early, so can choose for very nice view seat.

See, the stage decoration and concept, superb ya !!!!

The whole view of the concert from our seat !!!

Different singer, different stage background lighting and effect.

In fact, inside the concert hall, it's not allowed to take any photo, my beloved Lao Kong, being the " Bravo Gan Shi Dui ", he took some pictures for us to remember the event ! Good job done, Lao Kong !!!

Finally, I really got to thank my hubby for being so nice and generous to buy me this birthday gift to make it a memorable night for us. This is the second time I went for Wakin's concert with my hubby, the first one was waking himself, not really good, reason being is the songs that Wakin presented in the concert are all non-popular songs which we don't know how to sing, but for this, it's 101% guaranteed a not-to-be-missed event for the year !!! Thanks, Lao Kong !!!! Muak muak !!!!

Bak Kut Teh At My House

2009-09-15T20:37:00.000-07:00

16.07.2009, this is the first time I cooked " Bak Kut Teh " for my parent and only brother.

I invited my papa, mama and Lian Fung to my house for a " Bak Kut Teh " dinner, with my beloved Lao Kong. For Lao Kong, of course, I cooked once Bak Kut Teh for him liao before, this is the second time for him, with more ingredients.......................

See, this is the ' end product ', after more than 8 hours boiled in the slow cooker, from morning when I left my house for work till I came home in the evening, whatever put in the slow cooker, already soft and even meat also ' melted ' a bit, due to long time cooking. But in fact, it tastes good, just that my hubby complaint that there are no meat foound in the pot, although I bought a lot of meat, but due to long time cooked and boiled, everything melted. My parent and brother also said it tastes excellent !!!!

Some other side dishes which I prepared to eat with the Bak Kut Teh soup. Hmmmmmm ......................... yummy, yummy !!!!

Fun But Tiring Weekend With Kids

2009-09-15T20:10:00.000-07:00

On 11.07.2009, my eldest sister is not free, so she has no choice but to send her children to my house to take care on her behalf.

This is the first experience that me and my hubby have with two small kids overnight at our house. My hubby only conclusion : " God ! It's even tiring to take care of kids than doing any other things ...................... " Hahahahhahahaha.................................. He mentioned this statement after taking care of the two little one for approximately 20 hours. ha hahahaha, now only you know, dear !!!

It's a good experience and learning process for my hubby who has never really take care and live with kids all this while, I am glad that he loves kids very much and I am happy that he picked up something on that meaningful but tiring weekend. I truely believe that my hubby will be a good daddy soon in future for our little first baby girl. Because when you see him playing with kids, his fatherly character are all appears clearly and he really enjoyed playing with them, although it's tiring. Dear beloved Lao Kong, a " HURRAY and BRAVO " for you !!!!

Don't say us as adults, even kids so energetic also tired like this, what about two of us ???? Of course lah, in less than 20 hours, we brought them to about 7 playgrounds and parks to burn their energy, sure they are so tired lah !!!!

See, how sweet both them sleeping, really sweet !!! And, on the sofa itself, my hubby also sleeping, coz he is also very very tired liao. Me, the pregnant mummy-to-be, of course very tired too, but no choice, still got houseworks need to do, so can't take a rest loh.......................

However, it's a very very good practical session and experience for both of us for that weekend, thanks to my eldest sister - Venice for trusting us by letting their kids to be with us for that weekend. Cheers to all !!!!

Pulau Ketam One Day Trip

2009-07-20T00:48:00.000-07:00

7th June 2009, Sunday, we, the whole family, 15 of us + Bee Chik + Ah Koh's couple went to Pulau Ketam to celebrate Papa's 2009 birthday.

We gave him an option, to go for luxury dinner at Restaurant or for a day trip across the sea to change a good luck and bring home some good luck ? His choice is this - Pulau Ketam Trip.

This is the lovely couple, the second daughter of Mr Lim Tai Keng and Madam Kiew Si.

See my cute cute niece, my eldest sister's daughter - Vjinn Tan, with her winning victory handsign. The one behind her, in green blouse is my youngest sister - Siew Tin loh !!!

See, Ah Koh ( second row in black, next to my mum ) with her husband. An uncle never talk one, not me saying, even his wife also says, married him for so many years, very rare she heard his voice. Hhaahahahha............. but they are very lovely and sweet couple.

The one standing is my uncle - Bee Chik ( my dad's youngest brother from Singapore ) and the pretty lady sat next to him is my sister - Sweet Bee loh !!!

CK Wong ( left hand side ) + Dickson Tan ( my brother-in-law ), the insurance man. ING !!!

Ah ! Lao Kong, so tired arr ? You opened your mouth so big big !!!! With three little cute one beside you ..........................

Oh no ! My Lao Kong already tak boleh tahan, sleep liao !!!

See, this picture taken is very funny. None of them look at the camera, three little one look to the right and my beloved look at the left hand side. Wondering who is the one who hold the camera ? Hahahhaahhahhahhaa ................. who else ? CK loh !!!!

See, my Lao Kong already in the midst of seeing his ' Zhou Gong ' liao ............... he really love to sleep. See, what my mum and Ah Koh chit chatting about at behind, like something very secretive leh .............................

Papa joined in for the photo session, see, so cute Vjinn !!!!

My two younger sisters - Ah Tin and Ah Bee ! One just got married and one have already 2 kids ................ which one you think got 2 kids ?

My Bee Chik, a very good uncle, purposely came from Singapore and joined us to Pulau Ketam for a day trip cum a Treasure Hunt at Pulau Ketam. He enjoyed the trip very much ! It's waste that his wife - Ah Abao is not joining us for this trip. But recently, his health is getting worst, really wish that he could recover faster and stay healthy all the time !!!!

My three sisters - which one is the eldest one ???? Who is the most prettier one ?????? I leave it to you all if you think the most prettier one is not in the picture, coz she is writing the blog mah ...................... hahahhhahahahaha............................

Like father like son, really father and son !!!! Again, it's birthday celebration for my dad and he is wearing red again, his son too, always wearing red for all celebration occassions......................

Happy family !!!! I wish I could also be like them, have a boy and a girl in the family, then it's happy enough !

You might find it's rare that I have photo with my hubby on this trip, because that morning, we were quarrel, not happy. Hhahahahahhaahha............... so didn't talk to each other ................ but after the treasure hunt in Pulau Ketam, we are okay back ! It's normal lah, to have small quarrels in our life, as long as it's not too often and not too bad the situation is, it's ok one. Anyway, to have only laughters in life is impossible, must add in a little bit of heart breaks, tears only can tell : " Sour, Sweet, Bitter and Spicy ". But of course I hope to have more more more and much more sweet than the rest in my life and in my relationship with my hubby loh !!!!

See, my usual hubby, in his usual habit, reading newspaper, no matter where and when. Even in the boat, so hot, so noisy, he can also take his own sweet time to read the newspaper.

I secretly went to his back, ask CK to take a photo for me with him as I see all my sisters also taking photos non-stop with their families and hubbies, only me, no one entertain me, so I went to his back without his notice, and take one photo loh, at least one loh.

You might noticed we really took a lot of photos in the boat / ferry, coz the waiting time and journey is too long, it took about 2 hours for us to travel from Klang Jetty to Pulau Ketam, due to we have went to a wrong boat where it goes for a tour to the Fishing Factory first before we reached Pulau Ketam and the waiting time for the boat to depart, due to a delay of a big tour group, so it delayed the departure. So, we took photos by killing time loh !!!! Afterall, nothing much to do mah !!!!

Too free, really nothing much to do, somemore my hubby also didn't talked to me, so I put on Sunblock on my face loh !!! Ugly leh !!!! I don't mind, it's me mah !!!!

See, he is really enjoying his newspaper reading, with himself !!!

A young mother, a cute baby and a pretty young newly wed sister !!!!

Kissing in public !!! So brave !!!!

Me and my only brother !!!!

Oppppsssss ....................... me and my lao kong, I really cannot tahan his ' cool action ' towards me, I asked him to come to hold my hands and take photos with me.

This is the lovely couple, my father's aunt & uncle. All their children also have very good achievement in their career paths.

Lovely and good father-to-be. My Lao Kong and the " Little Bak Kut Teh " really got ' yuan ' one, my hubby really loves him very much. Since last weekend, Dexter and Vjinn came to our house to stay overnight with us for one night, we both also missed him very very much !!!! He is really cute !!!! We brought both Dexter and Vjinn to 6 Playgrounds to play over the 2 days. They were so tired but happy !!!

See, his funny funny face !!!! With his ' Mushroom Hairstyle '. Really ' Leng Chai ' one ................

Oh I see ! No wonder the kid also likes to do ' pig mouth ' lah, the father and mother also like to do this, haahhahhahahahaa.....................................

Happy Birthday to you ! Happy Birthday to you ! Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Papa !!! This is the Birthday Cake that we bought from KL and brought to Pulau Ketam. Try to imagine, from morning, travel by car, boat, waiting for them to finish their treasure hunt games, walks so many miles to look for them, got to take care of the 4 kids somemore, and got to carry this cake here and there, to everywhere that we go. It's really difficult, must enjoy and finished it. However, nice cake ya !!!

Wow ! This is really classic leh, real ugly man !!! Good shot !!!!

See, we both looked so tired, preparing for the birthday song singing session !!! So many candles ya, purposely one, 60 years old, with 4 kids, more candles, looks more fun and happy mah !!!

2 Happy Couples, my Daddy Mummy and Dexter Vjinn's Daddy & Mummy !!!

Very easy satisfied father - he is my father !!!! But he looks so old in this picture, or could be said, recently, he looks much older than earlier !!!!

Beh Koh, Koh Tiew, Mama & Papa !!!

The newly wed couple !!!!

Dexter is so tired and sleepy liao !!!! He looks so sexy in this picture !!! hahahahahhhahah........... with his little half close eyes.................................

This is my happy family !!!!!

Nice View Of Kundasang Sabah

2009-07-20T00:00:00.000-07:00

There are a few nice photos taken by my beloved hubby during his business trip to Kundasang, Sabah recently.

I think it's a waste if I didn't share this out and keep it in my blog, as I know my hubby loves to take photos and how he wish he could have a nice expensive camera for shooting purpose. So, what I can help him to fulfil his this dream for this moment is, to share out those photos that I think it's nice ( took from a digital camera ) in my blog.

Dear, this is what I can do for the moment !

Nice ya, the village view of Kundasang ! I can't even believe this is in Malaysia, it really looks like those small village oversea or in old old time England. Hahahhaahahaha .............. I particularly love this picture, and also because of this picture, I have the idea to put up these photos to my blog. Nice ya ?!

Another photo of Kundasang, the footnote of Mount Kinabalu, a highland full with greenery and nice fresh air and view.

The Sabah or Kundasang River ? I have no idea as what place is this as my hubby never tell me about it.............

Mount Kinabalu ?

Nice clear sky view .......................

In the evening, just before sunset ...................

How I wish I could see this house by myself, and I believe it will be really nice. I really like this kind of view and feel, real nice. How I wish I could go to this kind of country one day, the oversea country, maybe a small village in England or Scotland ?????

It's really a rural area, see the road...................... still very original and basic facilities ..............

Fresh air and nice yellowish flower, how come my Lao Kong never pick one flower and bring home for me, hahahhahhhaha...........................

Green, green, green ................................. good for eyes too ................... good for health ...................... good for mood .............................

Kundasang, a place that I want to pay a visit .....................................

Lim Lian Fung's Birthday Celebration

2009-07-16T01:10:00.000-07:00

14.06.2009, is my only brother's birthday !!! Felik Lim Lian Fung's birthday !!!

We went to a Chinese Restaurant ( suggested by my mother ) in Serdang named Chen Fatt Restaurant, a very famous old old restaurant in that area for his birthday celebration. My family, CK's family and my parents were there for this celebration.

This is our first time to the restaurant, food is only so so but we ' kena potong ' by the restaurant. One of the dishes - the prawn cooked in two flavours costs us RM 185.00 just for one dish, this is really too expensive. Prawn is nice but just that the price is just too much !!!

Service wise, not good too coz upon serving one dish, Xiao Ping ( CK's brother ) who sat next to me was ' kena ' due to the carelessness of the Bangladesh servant. He was so angry !!! So, food so so and price expensive + service not really good, nothing to attract us to go back for second time visit.

Like father like son. Both also wearing red for this occassion. My dad laughs happily at the end of the celebration.

This is the only photo of me and my hubby. The guy next to me is Xiao Ping loh !!! Can see my stomach ya !! Hhaahahhahahahahah.....................

The ' Show Sing Gong ' with his 3rd sister !!! And the cake !!!!

This is Lian Fung's ' trademark ', small eyes, everytime he smiles, also cannot see his eyes one. hahahahahhaa......................

Papa was so doubt and worried that day because of the Sabah debts matter. At the end of the lunch, I brought up the issue and discussed openly with everyone on the table. See back the first picture of this blog report, he laughed happily at the end of the lunch because his doubt has been shared out and we gave him some solutions to resolved it. Father, father, oh ! My father !!!

Still look so doubtful ya ! Like got a lot of things to think of one .............................

Me and hubby again !!! See his close face !!!

Happy Birthday to Lian Fung !!!!

Genting Highlands 2D 1N Trip

2009-07-16T00:28:00.000-07:00

On 31/05/2009, co-incidently, without any prior plan, because me and my hubby needs to fetch my mother-in-law to Genting Highlands to meet up with his friend to go back to Kuantan, so we plan to go to Genting for a trip. Originally, we plan only to go for a day trip coz it's school holiday, no rooms available at Genting. But then Ah Pak have already booked 2 rooms there for their holiday trip, so my hubby suggested to try out our luck and make an overnight trip.

With my mother-in-law's effort, she managed to ' squeeze ' her friend Ah Fook to use his Genting World Card points to redeem a free room for us at First World Hotel, so we decided to stay overnight. Due to the many haunted stories about Genting plus I am now pregnant, I am quite reluctant to stay with only myself and my hubby in Genting Hotel, so my hubby makes effort to call CK and Ah Soong to come to join us. Without any prior plan, everyone says YES to us, so ended up, 8 persons ( 6 adults + 2 children ) stayed in a tiny room at First World Hotel. Hahahhahahhahahaa.................... first in my life time that the famous small room hotel First World can accommodate 8 persons, it's really amazing !!!

This is my cute cute niece, Ling Ling ! I love her very much ! She is pretty ya !!!! Very mature one ahhhhh.............. not believe ? Try to talk to her ................

This is the happy modeling family - My eldest sister's family. The baby in red jacket is my beloved nephew - ' The Little Bak Kut Teh '. He loves Bak Kut Teh a lot, typical Klang boy. Always says everything by adding " Bak Kut Teh " in, even in his singing, he change the lyric to " Bak Kut Teh " too. A really really cute cute baby boy !!!! How nice if my baby also looks like him ................... haahhahhhha................ of coz for my baby boy only lah ........................... ha !!!

I didn't take any photo for the whole trip and this is the only ' proof ', an ugly proof, hahhahahahahha................. see, my Lao Kong with his Bak Kut Teh !!!

The brother and the sister - of my youngest sister's children. Ling Ling and Jun Jun !!!

Two very smart and clever children !!! Very mature too !!!

My hubby basically loves all chindren, he will be a good father who will spoilt his children in future !!!! Very fatherly character !!! Anyway, I like it !!!! A good father is a good man !!!

See, he willing to do anything for the kids, just to make them happy !!! Lao Kong, my children's good daddy !!! I strongly believe that you will be a good father soon !!!

Ling Ling with the golden horse !!!!

My Another Belated Birthday Celebration - Picnic Trip

2009-07-09T00:23:00.000-07:00

Hahahhahahhaa, this is a real good experience, effort of my best friend - Grace Chong to organise a 4-adults picnic trip to Lake Garden to celebrate my belated birthday. The trip was on 05.07.2009.

There are myself, my Lao Kong, Grace Chong and her best friend - Selsee Quah ! hahahahahhaa, four adults without any kids or children, went for picnic in Lake Garden. Grace was the one who suggested this idea and this is her first and last picnic experience. As knowing her, she doesn't appreciate green and nature, somemore it's a Sunday morning, 8.30am, to me, it's impossible for her to do so one. But she did it especially for me !!!! So exclusive, feeling really so good de neh !!!!

See, we are so happy ! This photo was taken by Selsee for us. Grace really tak boleh tahan us for posting like this.............................. hahahahahhahahahhha................... I am really happy to have friends like this whom really sacrifice for friends. She is really a good friend.

My new hair style, cut on Friday and let Grace see on Sunday, fresh from the oven. With my ' new look ', 5 months pregnancy mummy's look, hahahhahahha............... it's a real big surprise to her and Selsee !

Left hand side is Selsee Quah and the pretty one in Blue blouse is Grace Chong loh !!! They thought to come for jogging and exercise early in the morning, but then see me pregnant, then change to morning walk liao. Hhaahahhahahahha.......................

This is Selsee and me loh !!!! A lady who will soon forgo everything in Malaysia and go to Taiwan to be fulltime student. How nice to be at the age of 29, still can go for fulltime study. Good ! Bravo !!!

Another picture with Selsee in full body. See, she is wearing sport shoes and I am wearing slippers. Ha !!! She is in pants and I am in skirts.

This is my good friend loh - Grace Chong. As mentioned, this is her first and last picnic experience in Malaysia. Thanks, Grace for sacrifiying for me to organise such a wonderful and memorable special belated birthday celebration for me !!! Thank you very very much !!!

After the walk and the food, we sit at the Play Ground to wait for my husband to wake up. He slept on the long chair while three of us were chit chatting. And since the place that we have our food has too many flies and small little insects to disturb us, we changed a place to sit down. We moved to the Playground and keep chit chatting there. Ha !!!

See, what's in my hand ? The Chocolate Cake was specially made by Grace for me, without flour one, to celebrate my belated birthday. She is really treating me so well !

Nice view, pretty ladies, nice food, good friends ! What else to ask for in this world ???? Lake Garden is really a good and ideal place for picnic, I will soon organise one for my own family members.

Who is this ? The most handsome guy in the world loh ! My Lao Kong in his white shirt with his cool look !!!!! hahahahahhhhhhaha.............................. and his usual newspaper !!!

Ok, now it's time to see what we have prepared !!! Fruit Egg Tarts ( buy one ), Popiah ( buy one ), Tomato ( buy one ), Gardenia Bread ( buy one ), hot dog with cucumber ( prepared by Grace ), Biscuits with Blackcurrent Jam ( prepared by me, tak laku lah, no one interested to eat this ), Chocolate Cake ( specially baked by Grace for me ), Apple Salad with mayonnaise ( prepared by me ), Pearl Drinks ( prepared by me ), no heavy food, all light food, but still we all eat till very full, only my beloved Lao Kong, he doesn't really eat much ! But sleep a lot lah ............... hahahahhahha..................

We gathered at KL Bird's Park, while waiting for the other two pretty ladies, we took a photo at the main entrance of the Bird Park. Another memorable day in my life !!!!

My Father's Birthday Celebration For Year 2009

2009-07-08T21:28:00.000-07:00

01/07/2009, it's my father's birthday. In fact, we have already celebrated his Chinese birthday in early June 2009 by going to Pulau Ketam for a day trip.

The reason why we went to Pulau Ketam is because it's good for papa to go out from the land and make one round back, and this one round is really effective and useful. After we celebrated his birthday in Pulau Ketam, papa's car plate number and handphone number keep on open in Magnum, Toto, 3D and he wins a bit from there, hahahahhahhaha............. he is so happy !!!!

See, this is my ' new ' papa with his new image, with the ' kambing janggut ' . All these photos were taken on 01/07/2009 at our house.

The birthday cake is bought by Loo Seng uncle and as usual, he bought not only the cake, but a lot of other dishes too - " Siong Tong Lala " - my favourite, and many other dishes.

Look, so many candles on the cake itself. Loo Seng uncle don't know how old is papa and he just simply take 6 big candles and 10 small candles for us to put. And I put 5 big candles and 10 small candles to make it looks more glorious. Ha !

Papa is really a man who is very easy to satisfy with. As long as the family members are with him, he is happy enough already. All of us ( 15 persons ) were celebrated his Chinese birthday at Pulau Ketam but for his English birthday on 01/07/2009, none of them are free to come home celebrate it, first it's because it's weekday, all grandchildren got to study next day, so they didn't come. Second, Ah Bee and Ck went to Guilin, China already for holiday. My Lao Kong was at Sabah on business trip, so only left out me myself, mama, didi and Ah Lin Jie to celebrate for him at home. However, Dickson came at about 8.30pm for dinner too.

Originally, I was planned to bring them to Kajang for a proper dinner but ended up, Loo Seng bought a lot of food for us, so we celebrated at home only loh !!!!

See, he is really happy leh !!!!

This is really the happy modeling couple !!!! The laughter and smile are really from his bottom of heart one ............................

Hi-Tea With Tun Mahathir

2009-07-08T21:17:00.000-07:00

On 30/06/2009, me and my colleagues were invited to a Launching Ceremony at Holiday Villa Hotel Subang where Tun Mahathir Mohamad is the invited guest.

See, me so close to Tun !!! Eventhough he is already 80 years old plus, but he looks so young and his skin is so soft and nice.

My colleague, Grace Chan ( the middle in black blouse ) with Tun.

Steven Gan, the Malaysia Kini Online Newspaper Founder.

He is a really nice man !!!

Another photo with him while he is busying in signing autograf with someone.

Tun is on the stage receiving his token of appreciation from the host of the event.

My Birthday Celebration For Year 2009

2009-07-08T20:31:00.000-07:00

Year 2009, it's a memorable year, because we ( me and my Lao Kong ) have our first baby !!!! with us to celebrate my birthday this year ! It's definitely very very special to us !!!

This year, our original plan was go to Beijing to celebrate my birthday, we booked a 9 days tour package to Beijing during MATTA Fair and only by then, we found that we have this little life appear in our life, so we have no choice but to cancel the trip. As such, my Lao Kong replaced it with a local trip to Tanjung sepat for me. Hhaahahahahhhahhha............... a place where I didn't go for so many years and quite missed it.

There were two places we went on 29/06/2009. First we went to Pulay Carrey, a new island to me which for years, I dream to go and see the Orang Asli Village, and this year, my dream came true. My beloved Lao Kong helped me to fulfil this dream. Now I know what is Pulau Carrey's Orang Asli Settlement. Ha hahaahhhhaa......................

See, my birthday lunch in a well known Chinese Seafood Restaurant at Carrey Island. With my hubby only. Due to my pregnancy, I got to forgo my beloved crab for this lunch, but never mind, as long as we both have happy mood to celebrate, no matter where we go, what we do, what we eat, also no problem !

See, this is the mother-to-be with a 20-week old baby in her, celebrating her 32 years old birthday with his lovely hubby at Carrey Island.

Look, even with only three dishes, we also cannot finished, really a waste !!!! We talked a lot, we communicated with each other, we laughed and we were so happy in the restaurant, we spent quite a long time in the restaurant. You know lah, for my hubby, it's very hard for him to stay long in restaurant one, everytime, right after finishing the meal or even before I finished my food, he already asking for bill. But for this very special day, he really gives face to me and in fact, he really really loves me so so very much, he stayed long in the restaurant and even ask me to guess the venue of two pictures hanging on the wall. So happy that my beloved purposely took a day-off from his work to celebrate for me on my birthday. Thank you, my beloved Lao Kong !!!!

Balance of the food !!!

This is Tanjung Sepat. We drove for about 250km today alone, to go round in this particular piece of land to visit all the places of interest, the fishing village, the kampung, the culture, the temple, the hotel and etc. This is one of the pictures that my hubby took at the bridge.

This is the " Happy Mummy-To-Be " !!! with 5 months pregnancy. Still look very pretty ya !!! hahahaahhahahhaha....................

Can you see what is this ? All the small small crabs ' walking ' on the beach .............. so ' geli ' ya !!!!

Ha ! Guess how we took the picture ? It's basically no one at the bridge one, only two of us. my clever hubby put the camera on the lamp post and took this nice picture for us. He is really talent and good at all this skills.

Look like desert ?

In fact, it's very hot at that time, we exposed right under the hot big sun at about 2pm in the afternoon.

Another nice picture of the Birthday Girl / Mummy !!! Blue sky with pink shore !!!!

Another nice photo from the ' lamp post ' !!!! The angle are so right that we both appear in the middle of the picture. Clever, my hubby !!!!

One more one more ! Why my hubby's face like that one ? Like so ' san fu ' one ???? hahahahahha, maybe too hot !!!

This is the Fishing Village of Tanjung Sepat loh !!!!

The lovely couple - mummy and daddy-to-be !!!!

Guess, what is this ????

At night, after we came back from the beach, we went to Kota Kemuning, a very unique restaurant for my birthday dinner celebration !!!!

It's called Juliet Garden and Cafe !!!

Last year birthday celebration at fishing village too - Sekinchang !!!

This year birthday celebration at fishing village too - Tanjugn Sepat !!!!

Next year birthday celebration at fishing village again ???????? Ah ah ???????

Fraser's Hill Trip On 21/06/2009

2009-07-05T20:57:00.000-07:00

On 21/06/2009, Father's Day of year 2009, my Lao Kong planned for a trip to Fraser's Hill with his friends - Dr Tan and Krystal.

We went there for a 2 days 1 night trip, stayed at Silver Park Resort, quite a relaxing and enjoyable trip.

We went for jungle trekking trip, after heavy rain, with wet floor, with two pregnant mama-to-be.......................

The trail that we went is Rompin Trail............... see the board at the entrance .......................

This is half-way in the trail, it's quite slippery after raining, and the track facilities is quite run down, not proper maintained ............ even the handle also broken already ...............

Can read the trail board or not ? It's 50m !!! Yeah ! We managed to reach 50m, considered very good and adventurous for pregnant mum already !!!

Main entrance of Rompin Trail .................... Welcome !!!

This is the living hall of The Smoke House Resort, where we are having our Father's Day fine dining dinner in the restaurant ............................nice ?????

Another corner of this British Colonial Cottage Hotel ............... I really love the architecture, design and ambience of this hotel ................... my Lao Kong loves it very much too.................

The stove at the same hotel / restaurant ................ nice leh ...................

The garden / courtyard outside the hotel and restaurant ...................

Another corner with the swing swing ........................ so sweet !!!!

Green floor, red flower, with a happy couple .................. hahhahahhahhaha.................

My Lao Kong loves the courtyard and garden very much !!! Took many photos here ...........

This is another tourist destination at Fraser's Hill, the waterfall...................... I had my Jagung !!!

Inside the restaurant, at night for our fine dining dinner.................. western cuisine ................

The bill is not cheap leh, four persons, the bill comes up to nearly RM 400............... only the Cod Fish that my hubby ordered already costs RM 100.00 ................ hahahahhahha ............

Next day morning, after breakfast, we took a walk around the hotel ..............

We stayed at Fraser's Silverpark Resort, in a two bedroom apartment .................

This is our group photos, with Dr Tan and Krystal..................

The significant landmark of Fraser's Hill - The Clock Tower !!!!

My hubby and his friend - Dr Tan !!! See the vest that my hubby wears, he looks so smart in the vest ya !!!! I bought him for his Father's Day gift, in Fraser's Hill, it only costs RM 30.00, so cheap, with 11 pockets in the vest, must be very very useful. He looks so smart with it, right ?

Must click this and see, a very nice dessert served in Smoke House Restaurant, click and see yourself !!!!

That's all !!! Overall, it's a very enjoyable and relaxing trip.................

Can't Sleep Without Holding Your Hands .........

2009-05-06T01:22:00.000-07:00

It has been 2 months, exactly 2 months you didn't travel already, 2 months with you all the times and every night to be with me especially this crucial period when we are expecting our first baby. Dear, thanks for accompanying me for the first trimester during my difficult time.

Last night, it's the first night, after 2 months every night with you, with your hands holding my hands to sleep, last night, at 3.45am, as usual, I can't sleep, and can't see you next to me, no hands for me to hold, no one for me to see, no one accompany me during the cool quiet night. I am not get used to it, I am not get used to the night without your company.

I like the feeling of holding your hands especially in the middle of the night, especially on nights which I can't sleep well.

Last night, I can't sleep from 3.45am till 5.30am, without you next to me. Dear, how I wish you could be with me every night, with me and with our baby.

Hope that one day you do not need to fly anymore and whenever I need you, I need to see you, I need to hold your hands, I need your company, you will be always available for me. How nice !!!!!

I love you, my dear !!!! And, I need you too, anytime, anywhere !!!!

Very Happy Being A Mother !!!!

2009-04-14T19:43:00.000-07:00

I would like to tell the whole world that I am a very very " xin fu " mother and wife of my beloved Lao Kong. Since I was pregnant, he really changed a lot, he has been very caring, very understanding, very good to me, treat me well, real good.

In the middle of the night, he saw me woke up, he will ask me if I am hungry, or he ask me if I am not feeling well till can't sleep well, he will call me while on his way back from meeting to ask he should ta pao anything for me, he would restricted me from not eating those unhealthy food like Nasi Lemak which is not good for the baby, he always reminded me to eat the Folic Acid medicine and keep asking me if I have eaten medicine or not everyday.

I like this kind of caring and ' scolding ', I enjoyed being a wife or mother like this. Lao Kong, I would really like to tell you that I am really happy now coz you are really taking good good care of me and our baby.

I feel like I am the most happiest and ' xin fu ' wife and mother in this world, let's join me to wish me and my Lao Kong being happy forever ...........................

Lao Kong, sincerely, from my bottom of heart, thank you thank you very very much for being so good to me. It's really my right choice to say " YES " to you for marrying you !!!

A Warm Raining Morning

2009-03-23T19:36:00.001-07:00

This morning, the weather is very cold, due to the heavy rain, early in the morning.

My heart also very ' cold ' ..................

Until he went out, my ' weather ' changed. He called me after he reached his car park and said : " Dear, are you ready to go out now ? " I replied : " Not yet. why ? " He said : " Think to fetch you to your car, coz it's raining heavily now, you might get wet. "

Just a simple question, makes me feel so warm and happy. At least, I know, he still cares for me. I am really happy that he called me up and show his concern and care on me. I believe this is what a wife needs, not on material stuff, but just a small showing of concern and care about her, that's enough.

Not only this, with his this call, my heart becomes so warm and happy a bit, at least to overcome the " very down " me early in the morning. But then, about 5 minutes later, I heard someone is at the door, open my house door, I quickly ran out and I see him again. He brought an umbrella for me from his car, he afraid that I don't have umbrella to my car and I will get wet, eventhough he didn't say much, but I can really feel the warmest and cares that he have in me.

Thanks, Lao Kong for making my day, making me feel so happy, making me ' not down ' and go to work with a very very warm and happy heart.

Lao Kong, what I request is only that simple. That's enough to make me happy for the whole day. Let's be more concern and care about each other, more and more.

I pain, is because I really feel pain.
I feel pain is because I really cannot stand the painfulness.
I try to hold my pain until I can't, I only tell you by then.
I feel more pain, not in my body, but in my heart.............................

Another 6 More Days To Go

2009-03-22T22:31:00.000-07:00

Dear,

There is another 6 more days to go and we are both ' one year old ' !!! " One year old = we have already get married for a year " !!!

Time really fly, so fast, like just a very short while, we have been living together for a year already. How's your this one year ? With all my long tales never-ending stories, my naggings, my happy faces, my jokes, my ' hokkian mee ' and etc, how are you, my dear ?

In fact, I really want to know how you live this one year, are you happy ? Are you happy being with me ? Am I good enough as a wife ? Have I played the wife's role well ?

All this while, only me telling you how I feel, you seldom share with me how you feel about me, how you think about our relationship. How I wanted to know your feeling, how I eager to hear your sharing.

To me, you have given me all the best things in my life, you gave me happiness, fun, excitement, surprises, jokes, laughters, and of course sadness and bitterness. Hahahhahahha............. nevermind, this is called life. Life should come with all these ingredients, then only it becomes fun and meaningful.

Lao Kong, I appreciated what you have given to me, a good life, a comfortable lifestyle, happy livings and all the laughters. I really enjoyed living with you. Everytime, I told myself, how great and glad that I have you in my life as my partner. How lucky am I to have a husband like you who is so tolerance, patient, understanding, thoughtful and caring. Althought sometimes I got to go through hard way to read you or I got to learn my lesssons or gain my ' ah ha ' from challenging way, but look back, it' s kind of like a process and a fun process ( although many times it comes with tears and sweats and quarrelling ). But it's part of our life, it's part of what we have gone through together.

Dear, I would like to thank you for being with me, thank you for forgiving me all my mistakes, tolerance with me on all my bad habits, be with me................ thanks for being with me all these while.

Here, I would like to wish you " Happy First Year Wedding Anniversary " to you and to me !!!!

Thank you, my beloved !!!!

My Very Very Cute Nephew - Dexter Tan

2008-12-18T01:19:00.001-08:00

Leh ! See, this is my cute cute nephew - Dexter Tan loh !

See my mouth, no bad teeth, all good one ! And my mouth is very big ya ????

This photo if send for competition on most funniest face expression, sure win one !!!

See, the mother and the son !

He he he .................... I am laughing to you lah !!

Come on, mammy, for a big kiss !!! See, how ' xin fu ' the mother smiles !!!

" Sa Sa de smile ........................ "

See my tongue !!! Long leh ...................

See, I want to show you everything for you to take photo, even for my stomach, I also open up for you to see.................. big stomach leh ....................... haahahahahaaha...............

What makes you laugh so happy ????

See, cute leh !!! This is my eldest sister's son - Dexter Tan !!! Why your face like want to ' ng ng ' but cannot ' ng ng ' one ?????

So, leng chai leh !!!

Damn cute man !!!

See his face expression !!! Got so many faces one !!!

He knows how to act in front of the camera too !!!!

See, purposely posted and let me shoot him !!!

The lady in green is his mother loh - Venice Lim !!! A very responsible and good mother !!!

This is the one lah !!!

Ho Fook Chuan's Wedding Lunch @ Kepong

2008-12-18T00:54:00.000-08:00

23rd November 2008, it's a very important day for my Toastmasters Club member - Ho Fook Chuan coz it's his wedding day !

See, this is the newly wed couple who will be flying to China for their honeymoon trip.

Shy Yen, is her name. She is really shy, shy until Ho invited her to come up to stage to accompany him for speech, she also rejected his invitation.

The above is a very good photo where very seldom that we can get so many Toastmasters members to be together at a outside event, especially for those who don't come to meeting often, like Richard and Larry. And members' partners.

Good photo, but just that the shooting angel is not that good and the picture is a little bit dark.

However, it's a very valuable and memorable photo for all of us !!!

Cheers to MII Toastmasters Club members !!!

Photographs of My Wedding & Registration Ceremony

2008-12-16T00:52:00.000-08:00

Today is really too free in the office, so got to find something to kill the time, think of nothing, then choose some nice photos from my wedding website and post up to my personal blog, for my fans' view. Hahhahahahaha.........................

See this, outdoor shooting, in real waterfall and the whole wedding gown got wet, playing tayar .................

This act was requested by the photographer - Ah Heng................ at that time, I am not heavy, very slim and having perfect body shape, no problem for my hubby to ' bei ' me............ but now................... hahahhahhaahhaa......................

Two photos in one scene ................ nice ?

This is one of my wall photos in my bedroom ...........................

Last year, Christmas eve, my Lao Kong decided to marry me and we registered at Thean Hou Temple, see, all our relatives, friends and family members are in Santa Clause's red cap, we purposely bought for them to wear and make it different and memorable. Even when we enter the registration room, the registrar also said : " Wow ! So eventful arr ......................... "

Indoor photo shooting, like " Sook Lui " in Paris leh ........................... so pretty ..................

Ulu Yam Dam, is the place where we were for outdoor shooting. The water that I am playing is actually very dirty and smelly, but the outcome is very nice ya. From this photo, the scene seems very nice and cool, wow ! At that time, it's exactly noon time, the big sun is big big up there until my eyes also can't open leh....................... got to pretend like playing water, very happy !!!

This photo is like shoot at the " Salem Cigaratte Hill ", look so nice and the blue sky colour is so impressive, I quite like the scene and the way my photographer take the photo, but just that out of so many different look that I have, this is the one which I dislike most, my face look so big in this hair style, but some people says it's nice..........................

This Indian Look is one of my favourite look, I love it so much ! Look so nice and like an Indian Lady. Ha...................... In a mamak roadside stall, my photographer ask me to do make up for shooting purpose. But not bad ya, the outcome. ..........................I like it !!!

See my bear bear ................ and my hubby's big mouth !!!!

This is my biggest wall photo where I put it behind my bed and look at it everyday and every night.............................

Grow old ??? Before I am getting old, you ask me to grow old faster ????????????? Take a look at the small photo in the middle, which my hubby feed me with the satay, I love this photo very much, look so sweet and cute ..................................but my beloved says, not nice woh .................. so put it small small at the bottom loh....................

This is the photo we gave to our parents to put it on the wall at our houses. The only official wedding photograph........................ with sexy look .................... hmmmmmm....................

Pretend sleeping on the very dirty and wet " Qing Tai ", but I like the shoot on my shoes..................

Again, Indian look with big smile, although this photo is a very close up shoot, and my face looks so big, but I like it, coz I really like my this look .................... look so sweet and pretty................. what you think ?

Salem trees and strong wind, jeans with blue sky, nice combination ! Of couse, also must have a good couple to enhance the beauty of the nature ..................... ahhahhahahahh....................

The wedding gown which I wear on my wedding dinner night. So sexy and must have good and perfect figure to fit in, coz the gown couldn't be adjusted, the body must fit the gown.

Dark look, like standing in front of a church .................................. kissing my hands and I pretend like so shy .................... hahhahahahhaaha....................... so dramatic.......................

My lovely bear bear, where I hug to sleep every night, accompany me whenever my husband is on business trip.......................... his name is " Soh Loh Bear " ................. like I said in my this year Christmas gift, my Lao Kong bought me a Baby Teddy Bear to accompany this " Soh Loh Bear " loh................................... this is him loh !!! Say hello to my " Soh Loh Bear " loh !!!

Pink and purple colour plus blue, nice colour too ! This is " Gao Gui " style, like rich man's wife, standing in front of the bar counter. I quite like this look too.

Cheers to My Soh Loh and Me !!!

13.12.2008 - A Birthday Celebration For A Good Friend

2008-12-14T20:15:00.000-08:00

Grace Chong - an early special friend's birthday celebration on 11.12.2008, 2 days earlier before the actual big day for her.

Co-incident, 2 days before Grace's big day ( 13.12.2008 ), on 11.12.2008, is Sultan Selangor's Birthday and me and my hubby no need to work, it's public holiday for Selangor state, so we called Grace out for a dinner for her birthday celebration.

As usual, everytime, before me and Grace meet up, sure we will all been welcome by a heavy rain, that evening, the same, she came in heavy rain. All the way from Jalan Yap Kwan Seng, her office to Cheras, Taman Midah, the place where Grace's mother always come to buy her dried seafood stuff.

We celebrated her birthday this year in a very normal Chinese Restaurant in Taman Midah, Cheras. ( Till now, I don't even know what's the name of the restaurant ). Ha !!!

See this ! I bought her a birthday cake from King's Cake House. Luckily, she loves chocolate, originally, I forgot if she either don't eat cheese or chocolate, finally, my gudfeeling told me to choose for chocolate, lucky man, I got it right ! She loves chocolate cake !!!

It's definitely a surprise to her, to call her to such a normal Chinese restaurant, all the way from Jalan Ampang on a heavy raining evening, for a birthday celebration.

And it's also a surprise to her that she got a birthday cake and celebrated her birthday again with my sister - Ah Bee and CK again. Think this is the second time they celebrated birthday for her.

We ordered quite many dishes, a table of 5 adults and 1 kid ( me and my hubby, Bee and CK, Jun Jun + Grace ), we ordered 7 dishes.

We started with a sharkfin soup first. ( Wow ! ) Then come with : -

1. Sharkfin Soup
2. Crab - Not very good taste Crab cooked with salted egg ( not really remembered what cooking style )
3. Egg - " Sam Wong Dan " - Eggs cooked with 3 different eggs ( duck egg, chicken egg and salted duck egg ) ordered by my loved one
4. Vegetable - " Yau Mak " by Grace
5. Chicken - A special herbal chicken with ' wan tan ' - strongly recommended by the Captain
6. Sotong - Fried Sotong
7. Fish - Curry Fish Head - the restaurant signature dish
8. White Rice
9. Birthday Cake as dessert
10. Apple Juice, Chinese Tea & Red Wine ( Grace claimed that the Red Wine taste so good ! )

This is my good friend - Grace Chong, with her very BIG smiling face and her victory hand sign. She is 28 this year and going to 29 very very soon.

Her only wish for these two years birthdays is : To get a boyfriend and get married before 30 years old !!! hahahahahahhaa.............................. Last year she made the same wish too, hopefully her this wish could materialised very very soon loh !!!

Such a lovely girl, without boyfriend, can you imagine ????

I told her, the only way to escape from this ' fixed ' destiny, is to leave Console, haahhhahahha............ ( don't let my ex-boss or Grace's current boss know, otherwise ............. )

See, two happy ' soh poh ' !!!!

It's my birthday, it's so heavy rain, ask me come all the way from Jalan Ampang, at this kind of lowsy restaurant for dinner, still want me to cut the cake and serve you all, can't believe !!!! See her face expression, you know what's is she thinking loh !!!! Hahhahahahhhaah...................

But then, why suddenly become so happy one ????? Of course lah, this is just cutting the cake, right after making the wish mah, I haven't ask her to serve yet, now you see the difference of " Before & After " leh .............................

See, my hubby with his Red Wine, oh ya ! The red wine that night was sponsored by CK, as I forgot to bring mine, left it at my house on the table, so quickly call for help and ask CK to bring one.

People birthday, she is so free to take so many funny faces photo..................................

See, so ' wu liao ' with her boyfriend.......................

This is Jun Jun, my nephew, also joining us for the dinner that night.......................

Grace, happily cutting the very hard American chocolate cake................... with big smile on her face, pretty ya ???? Any recommendation of boyfriend ????

Yeah ! Still got a birthday card before the end of the birthday. Siew Bee commented that so many times of her birthday celebrations, I never bought her a card, but Grace, so lucky, got a card, at least ........................ hahhaahhahhaa.................... jelous woh !!!!

Well, not that only, I still got a ' mistery ' birthday gift for her, just that can't tell her on that night, coz not yet, got to wait till her real big day !!!!

On 13.12.2008, yes, I sms her early in the morning, while on my way to Kuantan with my hubby, ask her to call Eco Paradise to claim for her birthday gift ! She asked me back - are you serious ????? Of course lah !!!

Hope she likes the birthday gift loh !!!!

Grace, Happy Birthday 2008 !!!!

Christmas 2008 SURPRISE

2008-12-12T00:05:00.000-08:00

" We wish you a Merry Christmas, We wish you a Merry Christmas, We wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year !!! "

Yeah !!! Christmas is just around the corner !!!

All the shopping malls in town have decorated their halls nicely with all the Christmas trees, decorations and accessories. This Christmas, year 2008, there are one " Soh Poh ", one day, she told her loved one that : " Dear, how nice it will be if our home sweet home also could have a Christmas tree like the shopping mall ! " Then, she starts thinking and dreaming............ and He just keep quiet and silent .................

One afternoon, without any planning and out of sudden, they were in IKEA, their favourite place for household items................... hmmm.................... and without realisation, He became more excited and interested to buy a Christmas Tree to decorate their home sweet home. She insisted to just buy a small tree for this year, and only next year we buy a big Christmas Tree, but he insisted that : " No, we buy the 6 feet one. "

With this, He happily and excitedly, running all around IKEA Market Hall - Home Organisation Department to pick up all the necessary items for their tree - their First Christmas Tree, and it's a gift to his loved one as Christmas gift. She was so happy and touched !!!

Firstly, it's just a bold tree, with his excitement, running here and there, jumping up and down, between IKEA and The Curve, He finally chose all the necessary. He bought a lot, She thinks it's too much, but He still feel not enough, still excitedly looking for more accessories for their first Christmas Tree. He became more excited than Her now.

And, by the time they reached home, after a 10 hours shopping at One Utama and IKEA, they started to upbuild the tree and started to decorate their First Christmas Tree. After 1 hour plus of hardworking installation and decoration, the below is the ' result ', haahahahahaa................ not bad ya, their First and only Christmas Tree.

See this !!!

Sorry, due to the photo shooting skill of the photographer, she not managed to take the whole tree with lights on, this is the best that she could do, so in order not to be missed out all the nice scene, She purposely posted more photos for you to see, just in case you can't see it.

See it carefully, all the photos are also different, with different lights on and effect. It will be very nice if you could pay a visit to their house and see it personally.

Nice ? He build up the whole tree and She is responsible on all the accessories. Not easy leh, got to make one by one the accessories, got to put in the string to the balls, the bells, the Santa Clause and etc. In total, she has already hook on 109 items with strings. Not easy leh !!! See so simple, a lot of hardworks behind leh.

After first installation, She feels not good enough, then she went to buy the wrapping papers, planning to wrap up all the boxes as gifts to place it under the tree ( not yet done, ha ! ), and she also bought more accessories to hook on the tree, and He also add in a few Teddy Bears imported from Australia to hug the tree. So nice, so warm, so happy, to see this Chrsitmas gift from the loved one.

I think the most happier thing is the process of choosing the gifts and tree + accessories together, to do it together, the process is very important and enjoying.

So, they finished the installation and decoration at about 1am and went to bed after that. The next day, early in the morning, She is too excited and still very very happy about it, until can't sleep, so she woke up at 6.30am and woke Him up too, both them sit at the living hall, on the floor, looking at the blinking Christmas Tree, really " Soh Poh " & " Soh Loh " lah !!!! hahahhhahhahhahhh.......................

Originally, she thought to give him a Christmas gift - the Mama Mia Show ticket, but due to delay in buying the tickets, they only managed to buy the 3rd January 2009 ticket. It costs RM 203.00 per person per ticket for a 2 hours show, but with His Enrich Card, we get a discounted ticket at RM 183.00 per pax.

So, this is Her Christmas Gift to Him, although She enjoyed and loved the Mama Mia Show more than Him, but He used to say, as long as she is happy, He is also happy mah, so, She happy, He happy loh !!! hahahhhhhahahaa.......................

Then, one evening, out of sudden, at Tesco Taman Midah, while She is choosing a birthday cake for her good friend - Grace at King's Cake House, He suddenly came by and bought Her a lovely Christmas gift again. What a surprise !!!!

See this, guess what is it ???

From Famous Amos, His favourite brand of cookies.

Deng deng deng deng !!!! It's a lovely small baby bear with chocolate, His favourite too !!!! hahhahahhahaa

Cute leh, the bear ! So nice and so lovely. He said to Her : " I bought you a lovely Daddy Bear last year, and this year I bought you a baby Teddy Bear, then you got to born me a baby soon loh ! " So sweet, so lovely, so nice, so sweet....................................... hmmmmm................. kiss kiss, my dear Lao Kong !!!!

See again, this shoot, the eyes bigger.

And the HE that I mentioned, it's HIM loh !!!!

My lovely cute and nice and the best Lao Kong in the world !!!!

Thank you Lao Kong for giving me such a " Xin Fu " Christmas !!! Last year, you married me during Christmas Eve at our Registration Ceremony, and this year, you gave me such a big gift, A nice Christmas Tree with Teddy Daddy Bear !!!!

Dear, what's next year plan ???? I give you a baby teddy bear ?????? hhahahahhhhha.............................

I love you forever, my dearest Lao Kong !!!!!

Wedding 177 Days Anniversary Dinner

2008-09-24T23:48:00.001-07:00

Hi, my dear and all my friends, on the 177 days after we got married, co-incidently my hubby was away in Vietnam on business trip for 3 days and he returned home right on the 24th September 2008 night, and I decided to cook him a home made ' warm ' dinner.

I missed him so much, so rather than doing nothing waiting him home from airport, I prepared him a dinner, a not romantic but full of love dinner.

Simple dinner with home cooked food :

Food :
1. Fried Seafood Tau Foo - His favourite
2. Fried Tau Geh with ginger, " lap cheong " & garlic
3. Steamed Egg with " Tong Choi "
4. Pork Balls fried with onions & " hou yao "
5. Steamed White Rice

Beverage :
1. Soya Bean with ice

My dear really eat a lot tonight, don't know why, maybe he is too hungry, or maybe my cooking is too delicious, or maybe he purposely want to make me happy and eat so much. Whatever it is, I am happy that he like my food. Lao Kong, I love you !!!

P/S : I only decided to cook him dinner after work, when I am on my way home, quickly ran to Kuchai Lama Pasar Malam to buy the vegetable and cook for him. It's a last minute arrangement, that's why no soup loh. My Lao Kong loves my soup, lao kong ya !

It's a simple dinner for our 177 days after wedding celebration. My Lao Kong treated me so nice tonight as he volunteered in helping to throw rubbish, to clean table, and the most important thing is, he kiss me twice without my request !!! hahhahahahahhha.................... Lao Kong, with your appreciation, I will cook you more delicious food next time, alright ?

Another observation from my Lao Kong recently, don't know why, he likes to thank me for all the things I did for him, he says " Thank you " to me oftenly. Everytime he mentioned " Thank You ", I also feel so happy coz I can really feel his appreciation. My Lao Kong is a guy who doesn't simply say thank you to anyone, unless he is really feeling so and appreciate.

Thank you, Lao Kong !!!!

Something For My Lovely Hubby

2008-09-24T00:47:00.000-07:00

It has been long time, I didn't write to you, my hubby

It has been quite sometime back, we both last write to each other

It has been more than 177 days back, I didn't received your love letter anymore

Letters seems lesser and lesser since we married

Words becomes verbal

Using hand to write becomes using mouth to communicate

Still remember what I have told you earlier

To me, a piece of paper and a pen, is my best friend, my best communication tools

Rather than using my mouth, without notice, un-intentionally, someone might get hurt

Not purposely, it's unintentionally........................

It's me, words always come out faster than my thinking

Wise man says, think three times before you throw out any words from your mouth

Maybe this is the reason why I am not wise enough, hahhaahhahaha................

Dear, I am very very happy this two weeks, especially this week

Don't know why, maybe because we have a real good and relax weekend last week, maybe

Even my friends, can also feel my happiness through my msn with them, ha ! They are all so concern, sensitive and alert on my emotion

Or maybe I am too true for them to sense it ................

Since we got married, I think this is the 4th time you went oversea for business purpose

Too long, it has really been too long, you never leave for so long

Too far, it has really been too far away you go

I missed you, I missed you so much, I really missed you

Time seems passed too slow, time seems freeze till I doubt if my watch is not functioning

So happy, that, this evening, another few more hours, I can see you again

Welcome back, dear ! Welcome back !!!!

Real looking forward to seeing you soon, in another 4 hours......................................

Feeling Like Writing Something Today

2008-09-24T00:20:00.000-07:00

Today, feeling like writing something ...................

Received a sms last night, an old old friends sent me his blog and invite me to pay a visit. Took a look at it. Hmmmm.................... quite well done, quite good piece of articles, just that everything is about politics, except one particular one which is about his ex-boss, for that particular sharing, I quite like it.

Don't know why, since years back, I don't really like politics, and I particular don't like those involved into politic fields. To me, it's just too dirty, it's just too playful, it's just too dramatic, too fake, too artificial, nothing is true. Now, I myself consider a part of it, although the whole team in my company tring to deny that we ARE not involved in political thinggy, but nonetheless, the image that we have in the public, is something that we can't avoid or deny. What to do ????

Everytime, when people ask what do you do ? After I answered, the next question must be, which company are you working for ? My god ! After my answer, the sure next question : Ong Kah Ting, your boss arr ? You work for MCA arr ? You are MCA member arr ???? Hey, I hate this. I work in this company is because I like what I am doing, or rather to say that, I like the campaign concept.

The more I involved in my work, the more I realised that it's nearly impossible to achieve what I want to achieve here. It's totally not what I expect from the original, what I want to do is quite far away, coz everything has its hidden agenda. It's a political games, it has its all reasons to do what it wants.

Recently, after ' freezing ' my boss, it seems like it's no more fun working in this company, want to resign, don't know where to go, what can I do. Not resign, don't know what's the meaning of continuing working here. For no reason, every morning, come to office, thinking of 6pm, waiting to go home. Really has no fun, this kind of life style.

Hmmmm.................... where am I now ? Hey, I should talk about my friend who has just started a new blog, not about myself.

My this friend, he is still very ' hot ' and enthusiastic about his launching of the new blog, I think it's first time for him to write a blog. Quite good response, some regular friends are with him, support him and be his ' blog ' fans. Response actively to his sharing and comment. Good start ! Keep it up ! I write this purposely to encourage him to continue his blog, anyway, it's also for a particular political reason - hidden agenda too..................................

Well, " Jia You " !!!! Keep up the good work, my friend !!! All the best !!!

Birthday Celebration 29.06.2008

2008-07-01T02:30:00.000-07:00

Cheers !!! For me and my hubby ! Thanks Bee for being so detailed and caring, to prepare the cake and champagne. A surprise from the car booth !!!!

Picture 1 : This is my birthday lunch at one of the Chinese restaurants in Sungai Besar, a good lunch for 4 pax! Fried squid, my hubby's favourite, shark fin soup, sweet and sour crab with bun, thai style spicy steam fish and vegetable.

Picture 2 : See, CK is so good to help us to put the message into the bottle, he tried so hard to close the bottle and make sure no water will go in. Thanks CK for the hard work and thanks Bee for the great idea !!! It's really an unforgetable birthday celebration !!!

See this message written by the birthday girl, we put this piece of paper into the bottle, throw it into the sea, let it go wherever it wants, if someone pick it up and can understand what I have written, then will call me back, ha ! I think one day if I received such call, don't know where the caller will call from ? Hahhahahhaha.................... really ' soh ' !

This is really the ' Soh Loh ' and ' Soh Poh ' !!! Looking at the sky for what ?????

See my lao kong, so feminine, leg up, hand up leh .................................

Jump, jump, the photographer says, jump until he is happy with our action..................

No, dear, the photographer says look at the same direction, to the right lah .................... not left

Now, the photographer said, hey, ' Soh Poh ' or " Fei Poh ", jump higher lah ....................

This is real ugly ................... really ugly ................. yeak !!!!

The rice production factory ............. behind me are all the raw rice .......................

Wow ! Like holding gold sands on our hand .......................

My cute hubby !!!

His favourite post........................ ahahahahahhaa..................look at the sky ..................

How nice is this ? How many people can do this ???? hahhahahhaha..................

I have been throw birthday cake on my face by CK

Ever seen such big sunflower ????

The sunflower from Sekinchan .........................

Again, in the rice factory

Why repeat the almost same photo ?????

All of us at the singing restaurant, first time for Uncle Philip to come to such restaurant. It's also first time we celebrated our family's member birthday at a ' kwai lou ' restaurant !!! hahahhaa........... something different and special, I like it !!!

This is my birthday lunch at Sungai Besar - seafood cheap lunch !!! Shark Fin's Soup, my favourite crab with hot crispy bun, Asam Steam Fish, Vegetable and fried Sotong, yummy, yummy, only costs RM 118.00, unbelievable !!!! It's " Zhong Tai Seafood Restaurant " at Sungai Besar ! Go try it ! No regret one ! Cheap and Nice ! Recommended by Jin Xi, a friend from Sungai Besar.

This is the after burned rice field......... all black ..................... the model is about to jump, but the photographer says : " Hey, no 'sian' meh, only jump all the time "

Apple tree ................ in Sekinchan

Last year, today - 29.06.2007, I was with my boyfriend having dinner at Basil Leaf and he is proposing to me to marry him; this year, the same day - 29.06.2008, he is already my husband with 3 months married life. How fast time has passed !!!! Scary, man !!!

This year, my hubby brought me to Sabak Bernam for my birthday celebration. It's actually my suggestion. His original suggestion is Genting Highlands, a very commercial place which I don't like, so finally we chose to go for natural - paddy field and fishing village !

Our routing for that day is : OUG Home - Cheras Bee's House - Kepong Breakfast - Lembah Beringin ( Wrong Way ) - Bukit Pagar ( Wrong Way ) - Kuala Selangor - Tanjung Karang - Sekinchan - Sungai Besar - Sabak Bernam - then back to KL.

Some photo to share, it's a pity that I have forgotten to take picture for our dim-sum breakfast at Tuck Kee Kepong, nothing special, just for memory keeping purpose.

Uncle Philip Wong and his family bought a cake for us for the celebration. Thanks, Uncle Philip !!!

All of us at Kaki Corner Western Restaurant - mama's suggestion for a western style birthday celebration, something different !

Me and my Mr Right - a very very real nice Lao Kong !!!

My aunt - mother's sister - Ah Mei celebrated with us !

This is Judy - Philip's wife and my pretty mum !!!!

Uncle Philip who introduced Toastmasters for me and my ' leng chai ' father !!!!

Speechless...................

2008-06-12T23:21:00.000-07:00

Dear, don't know since when, we both are speechless............................... we can't talk to each other anymore, once we start a conversation, we sure get involved with fights and quarrels at the end. What's wrong actually ? I really want to find out why. I really eagerly wanted to know what has go wrong with both of us.

Everytime, when I am in the office, I missed you so much and have a lot of things wanted to talk to you, but when I am homed, I see you with your long unhappy face, I have nothing to say already. Or else, after I made one statement, like my whole body was so pain, then you replied with " It's okay, go and take bath, it will go well. ". For these kind of answers, I really felt so scared and worried that how shall I formed my sentence and talked to you.

Like just now, you called me and I was so happy to answer your call and we talk happily at the beginning, but suddenly, the chemical becomes wrong suddenly and the ' war smell ' getting serious and serious, and again, we ended up with an unhappy ending of conversation again. I don't hope to have such feeling towards you, dear ! How I missed our previous time, those happy time where we can really talk anything that we like, without any hassle, without any quarrel. I really missed that !

Like Wednesday night, I eagerly waiting you to be homed and would like you to take me to pasar malam to buy fruits, we were so happy all the while until you saw the old newspapers that I took out, your face started getting black and long face, and the ' jek, jek, jek ' sound comes out already. I really HATE the ' jek, jek, jek ' sounds. Why you want to do that to me ? What's so worng with me to take those old newspapers to throw ? The old newspapers have been disturbing me from my cooking and even for me to place something on top of it, because it's too many and too high, I can't even place those woks that I washed for drying purpose. What's so wrong with it for taking it down to throw before we go for dinner ? It's really distracting. I don't know, because of this very small thing, just that 1 second, our whole night screwed up !!!! I ate my dinner with tears in my eyes and pain in my heart. I can't slept for two continous nights already. The first night, you slept in the living hall, when I asked you to come in to the room to sleep, you " jek, jek, jek " again, I really hate that ! And the worst thing, after you ' jek, jek, jek ', you went out from the room and slept in the couch. I slept alone in the bed with tears that night .................. At 3.50am, I woke up and heard the TV sounds in the living room is so loud and you were not beside me, I knew you must have the TV to accompany you to sleep. I went out, looked at you, you slept well at the couch, I think twice and stunned for a while, if I shall call you to go into the room to sleep, I told myself, better don't coz just now experienced once already, kena scold and get the very heart pained feeling. So, I was so sad and don't like to see you sleeping alone in the living hall, I switched off the TV, lights off and go back to the bedroom to sleep. Tried my very best to sleep again, but can't, until you walked into the room at about 6am.

Second night, Wednesday night, was real sad, even for such a beautiful place for romantic dinner, I ate the dinner so hard and difficult, and can't sleep. Woke up again at 3.30am till morning. Was really thinking on what was happening between us. I was so curious and so upset, I love you so much, I love you more than before I married you, I asked myself, I tried my very best to perform the wife's duty, I tried my best to be a good wife, but then how come our relationship is getting worst and worst ????? A lot of questions in my mind ................ why, why and why ?????

You started come home late, it's ok, I waited you. You started become speechless................... we eat breakfast together on the same table by sitting next to each other so close, but yet our feeling was so far away. No one talking, it's a speechless morning & breakfast. You started have no topics to talk to me, you stared to stare at my at a very weird face expression, you started to keep quiet and don't know what to talk to me. Why, dear ? Can't we open up and discuss it. By hiding it, the balls will row bigger and bigger, I started feeling insecure about our relationship already, I started become so worried and so anxiety about our relationship. We got to do something about it before it is too late, dear ! Come on, we have been married only for 2 months .................................... That morning, I went office with two big panda bengkak eyes after long time crying .........................

I know, it's not only me suffering from the situation, you too, I can see from your face that you are not happy too, you are very unhappy, you too feeling not comfortable with me. Come on, let's work this out hand in hand, we still have a long journey to walk through together, we still have many many years to live together, please, dear, let's do something about it, do let me know what can we both do to enhance the situation and make both us back to those days us - the happy us !!!

For my side, from my very limited knowledge and experience, I really have no idea on how to handle this situation. The only thing that I have done for us is to pay and registered for a workshop for both us to attend, the one that I have mentioned to you earlier, the Thean Hou Temple call that you received this morning. I know completely that you hate this kind of workshop or talk, to you, it's a waste of time coz you know all the theory part. But then, dear, give me suggestion, do share with me what can we do to improve our relationship. I can only think of if we can't solve our problem, we listen to others and see how they solved theiw problems and we learn from there. What say you ?

Please, I beg you, please do not give up, please do not become speechless, please do not not to talk to me, please don't leave me sleep alone in the room, the feeling is too terrible, like get dump by someone, no one want me anymore, so pittyful and lost feeling. Really................... dear, give me a signal that you have read this and do agreed to work this out hand in hand for both benefits, ok ??????

Hope to hear from you by telling me that " Yes, lao poh, let's find out together how can we solve the problem, let's work hand in hand tightly to overcome this challenge. " I wait for you ........................

Not sure if you noticed, it has been two nights and three mornings that I didn't say " Good night, lao kong " and " Good Morning, Lao Poh " to each other already......................... I hope we can both sleep with a happy heart tonight............................

Endless Love For You from Your Lao Poh

Choice Of Words In Communication

2008-06-10T18:27:00.000-07:00

Recently, I realised thoroughly on the importance of " Choice Of Words " in life or in communication. My current Manager, is a very knowledgeable and caring person, he always shared with us the importance of " Choice Of Word " in daily life, he emphasized it to us on and off, he practised it in his daily life, he even correct our " Choice of Words " many times.................. He acts like a Grammarian in my life, on my poor English sentence construction and vocabulary. I must thank him for being so willing to share and to correct me on my mistakes. I appreciated it very much.

From his succeed in his communication with people, his relationship with others ( ex-colleagues, people around him, anybody even cleaner or passer by like a waiter in the restaurant, he also practise his good PR and " Choice Of Word " everyday, every minutes in his daily life ). I actually learnt a lot from him and I take him as my role model in life. I exampled him as my mentor, for my problem, my language barrier, my life phylosophy and etc. Of course, he is not perfect, he also has his shortage but still, overall, he is a nice old man to be friend.

The best part of him is he likes to compliment people, he loves to praise people, no matter when, where and doing what. For example, he will praise me when he walked into office " Hey, you look very fresh this morning ! Morning fresh ! " with a smile, that's made my day ! Not because that I crave for his compliment, just that by having such statement, he makes someone feel good and really fresh.

He always start his conversation with good words / praise or compliments first. Like everytime before he starts his conversation, he will say something like this : " Your centre looks pretty neat, you must have spent a lot of time in keeping it. " or " Mr Khung, from your outlook, I believe you must be a very experienced and professional trainer who really care of self image as your first impression to me was really impressive ! ". Things like this, really make people feel fantastic !!!

He is good at this skill. I really learnt a lot from him secretly and after working with him for sometime, I noticed that I started care and mind my language already. I will notice sometime after I said something, I found that I could construct my sentence in a better phrase and make the people who is listening to me to feel better, eventhough for a comment or recommendation to others, we could also tell it in a very sweet way. Aren't we learn this from Toastmasters too ??? Yes, we learnt how to give constructive feedback to members, we learn to evaluate people in a nice way, not white washing, but a real sincere feedback without hiding any facts, the real message have been conveyed and at the same time, didn't hurt people.

I try to sharpen my " Choice of Word " in my daily communication too in order not to hurt the people around me, especially my hubby !!! This morning, I got hurt again by his sharp words................... " My mum only has one box, you don't even can tolerant with this ? " What is this .............. I took so much trouble and effort, sweat, pain to clean up the Store Room, at the end, I got only this comment from my loved one. How hurt it is ???? Aren't we both also Toastmasters, aren't we practise what we learn in Toastmasters in life, especially the evaluation style in Toastmasters. Still remember the " G.L.O.V.E " concept that you share with me ? Or the burger concept apply in Toastmasters ?

Dear, shall we start to practise this in our daily life too ? This is not about ruling, it's more towards a better relationship. I care of you so much, very much, that's why I care of everything you do for me, every words you say, it's not I want to give you pressure like has no even freedom to talk and have to be careful when talk to me, just that do care about my feeling, I felt hurt easily, this is because I care so much.

Many times, in the morning, I was angry with you quietly, but everytime, when I walked into our bedroom, I saw you have helped to make the bed neatly, all my anger went off immediately. The same happened this morning. Everytime I looked at the bed, I told myself, what to angry anymore ? I have such a good and caring husband, who there to help to make bed in the morning, who helped me to cut vegetable, who helps to pick up my hairs drop in the toilet, who cooked me ' yong sam sou ' when I am sick, who cared of me so much, who takes the trouble to purposely come down to the car park to fetch me, who bought my favourite fruit - Dragon Fruit for me as a surprise gift, who massage me after I finished all the house work, who washes dishes after dinner, who made cereal for me in the morning, who eats vegetables that he doesn't like, who forcely finished whatever I have cooked just to make me happy and to appreciate my effort to him, who cares so much of me, what more to complaint ? What more to comment ? I am ' xin fu ' enough to have such a husband with me for my rest of life ..............................really, dear, many times, I was so happy when I walked into our bedroom, everytime I stepped into the bathroom, really, all these small action or effort in life do counts, it counts, I feel so sweet many times because of all these small small contributions that you have done for me, it really affects, I care of all these, it makes a difference in our life, it do makes me love you more and more and more ..............................

2008-05-27T19:30:00.000-07:00

Always Expect The Unexpected

This title - Always Expect The Unexpected - has really reminded me of my very very long time philosophy, which I have nearly forgotten. Always expect the unexpected to be happened in life.

Yes, if all of us manage to live life without any expectations, then everyday is a happy day. I have really forgotten about my this philosophy. Last night, after my Toastmasters Meeting, once I got on to my car, I can't wait to hear my darling's voice. Called him while driving. He sounded so excited on the phone by asking me where was I. I told him I just started my journey back home from my Club and it will take a while.

With this small question from my dearest hubby, I EXPECT him expecting my arrival at home. I was so happy and wish to reach home faster. After I turned into the Guard House, I drove slowly and kept my eyes around, trying to capture the body shape or face that I was eagerly wish to see. Looking around, eyeing around by driving damn slowly, not next to the Guard House, not next to any cars in the covered car park, hmmmmm............ until I reached my car park lot, still I didn't see anyone around. Ok, then I told myself, he might be slow a bit as I told him I won't be arriving so fast................... so, I quickly get down of my car and walked towards the lift. The street seems very dark and quiet as usual, which I hate this kind of feeling. Too quiet, too scary to me as I seldom or I avoid to reach home after the sky gets dark as I hate to walk alone to the lift.

As I was walking towards the letterbox area, I still didn't see him. Then I think, he might be hiding somewhere and try to scared me and play with me, I kept walking and turn around to see my left and right, front and back. Ok, very sure, there is no one around. Ok, my last expectation is he might afraid that he might missed me, then he is waiting for me at the lift.

Nope, no one around again. Another disappointment ! Okay, I told myself again, he might think that I might be late coz it's quite a distance from my Club back home. Lift is coming down from 13th Floor, 10th floor, 8th floor, my another expectation is telling me to EXPECT the lift might stop at 3rd floor and I might be able to see my hubby's face once the lift opens. Oh oh ! Nope again, another disappointment !!!! The lift opens and no one was inside the lift.

OK, then I wish I could reach home safely coz it's really late at night already. The lift door closed and oh oh, I hate this, I hate to see this, the lift stops at 1st floor, the door opens and the thing that I hate happened, a man, an Indonesian thin man walking towards the lift and he stood next to me, hate to have this kind of feeling, alone in the lift, with an Indonesian guy. I told myself, not to be scared, as two more floors, I will be reaching my home. The lift door closed, oppppsss.......... nope, how come the guy didn't pressed the floor number that he wish to go, hmmmm.......... suddenly, the news in newspaper came into my mind, nope, nope, don't think of all the bad things, nope nope nope ................... before the lift door fully closed, I have hope. Someone outside was trying to come in, I was so happy that someone could be with me in the lift......... I quickly press the ' open ' button and see who was there outside. Firstly, I saw a man's shirt, oh no, don't tell me that there is another Indonesian guy coming in .............. nope nope nope..................... please, don't .............................. huh !!!! After a second of negative thinking, I saw a familiar face, it's Jacky, the Nasi Lemak shop owner. I was so glad that he accompanied me in the lift and escort me home. Thanks, Jacky !

But still, the Indonesian guy still didn't press the floor that he wants to go................ then my feeling tells me again that he might be the neighbour who stays opposite our house, those Indonesian family. The lift door opens, I walked out and he also followed me walked out, I walked towards my house direction, he also walked towards the same direction, I kept turning my head behind to see if he is taking a key, if yes, that means he is staying here, otherwise......................... luckily, yes, he is our neighbour next door. Huh ! So relief ! I was so relief and I quickly open my house door and went into my house.

I then only saw my lovely hubby coming towards the door to welcome me. Huh ! But suddenly, due to all the ' pressure ' or ' stress ' in the lift, my emotion again lost control and I complaint or scolded my hubby for not coming down to fetch me. His face turns black immediately........... and went into the room without saying anything............... I also don't know since when he becomes so narrow hearted and gets angry easily........................

Then, I spotted that two persons were in the house, no one cares at all what is happening in the house. The shirt racks that I pulled into the living hall in the morning before I stepped out to work, were there remained. No one cares to even open the glass door and let some fresh air coming into the living hall, no one cares to bother to pull the shirt rack to the balcony, it is just like it's okay, no problem............................... remained everything and just pretend didn't see.

I walked into my room, the curtain has never been opened, again, no one cares.................. immediately, my temper comes and can't control my face muscle and it just go down and long, my face turns black again. As I was having fever since I was in the club meeting and kept on coughing and have running nose, I quickly get myself settled down by washing my face, bath and so on. My hubby didn't even ask a word and just lying down on the bed, I know he is angry with me.

But I know he is still trying his best to figure out what has happening to me and why my face was long and black, he tried to tackle me by saying : " Dear, can you please come over and let me hug you ? " Wow ! I was waiting for this statement everyday, how nice if everyday my hubby have such request. How much I grave or how much I wish to hear this everyday - again, another EXPECTATION ...................... but sorry, my dear, you requested it at the wrong timing, my running nose was so serious at that time, I can't even control my running nose as the water keeps coming out from my nose, and I am in fever. The only thing that I wish to do now is to wash my face, shower and then take medicine. OK, I know, you got angry with me again for not attending to your request and just told you to wait for a while. But I really can't tahan with my uneasiness and my sickness, dear !

Then you start mumbling yourself, again, turn your body to the other side and sleep. I really can't tahan this kind of action, this kind of reaction to me, come on lah, be a bit understanding, be a bit caring, be a bit detailed and asked at least : " What happen, dear. Not feeling well ? " Nope, nothing from you at all, except another long black face turning your body towards the other side of the bed and sleep.

You saw me eating medicine and without asking any question. My anger was boiling and I can't tahan. OK, finally, after I quickly get myself ready and go to bed and try to get myself cool down and talk to you, as I know, I was wrong at the first point as I shouldn't show you my temper once I stepped into the house. So, I am ready to say sorry to you.

I look at your backside, you didn't move, I called you once " Lao Kong ", no response. I waited for a while, " huuuu.................. huuuu.................. " the snooring sounds is the only voices in the room. I know you don't care and what can I do, it's all my own EXPECTATION, I shouldn't have such EXPECTATION by EXPECTING you to ask me : " Dear, how's your meeting ? " " What gets you so angry ? Anything happen ? Mind to share with me ? " " Who bully you, tell me and I will settled for you ? " " Why you eat medicine ? Not feeling well ? Wanna me to bring you to see doctor ? "

No, nothing from you at all, except the snooring sound. I know, I shouldn't have such EXPECTATION.

That's why I told you this morning that it's my very own problem, I need to settle it myself, I need to learn how to control my emotion in order not to make you angry.....................

But I asked myself another question : " If the only man in my life don't care about me or if I can't EXPECT the man who sleeps next to me on all these small little things, who else can I EXPECT ???? or who else shall I share all my happiness and sadness to ?????????????

I EXPECT you know the only person in this world who could affect my emotion is ONLY YOU ! I EXPECT you know there is nothing happen in this world could make my temper changes, except YOU !!!! Still remember, whatever happen in my office or Toastmasters or my family, I will share with you, on good or bad thing, I have never throw my temper at you for all these things, except YOU could juggle my emotion .................. dear, you might not realised yet how important you are to me...............................................

Zero Expectation Is Always The BEST !!!!!

Since Long I Didn't Write My Blog ....................

2008-05-05T02:38:00.000-07:00

Hey, all my Blog friends ! How's everybody ? ( It seems like I have a lot of Blog fans .............. hahhahhaah.............. in fact, only myself............... even my hubby also didn't log on to my Blog to read )

Really a lot of things happen recently in life. My last update on the Blog was far behind on 3rd August 2007 where I am still a girl and now, I am writing at an identity of Mrs Wong. Yes ! Within this half year, from August 2007 till May 2008, I have made a very big decision for my life - to marry a man !!!

Hhahhahaa............. as such, I am now no longer " Miss " or ' Girl ', I am a woman ( real woman ) whom carrying someone's surname in front of mine. Or in Chinese, I am now been called as " Ah Soh " or " Aunty " loh......................

Life has changed tremendously after married. For example :

1. Shopping still on, just that visit different stalls. Previously, I went shopping at Mid Valley for shirts, blouses, pants, skirts and etc; now I go Tesco or Giant or Carrefour to compare prices on vegetables, canned food, garlic, milk, Milo and etc.

2. Lunch time : Previously during lunch time I always think of a new place / restaurant to bring my colleagues over for new food or new exploration but now, lunch hour, I have no time to even eat but to buy grocery things or to prepare for my dinner by going to MyDin or Giant to do shopping.

3. Previously, during weekends, I sleep till late and do nothing / go shopping / go for good food / movie, but now Saturday and Sunday is my busy day on house work, cleaning, washing, sweeping, cooking, ironing, mopping and etc.

Not only the above, there are real a lot of difference between a single life and a married life. How to get used to another family's culture ? How to be a good wife and daughter-in-law ? How to be tolerance and compromised between each other ? How to control my emotion towards unhappy things happened in life and so forth.

Have been married and staying at a new house, I still remember, for the first night in the new house, I cried like hell, so sad, so pityful and so unhappy. Just for a simple reason : I missed my parents, I missed my brother, I have home sick ! Coz I didn't feel the same love in the new house. Things changed too fast until I can't cope and get used to it.

A lot of tears have been flowing through my face recently - all over some small minor issues in life............. I got to really learn how to be tolerance, compromise and be happy towards my new life.

Time to go home to cook now, got to keep my blowing feeling for next time.

Cheers ! Hope all my family members and friends are happy !!!

Wakin's Concert 2007 - Birthday Gift neh !!!

2007-08-03T02:16:00.001-07:00

14th July 2007 - Another Fun and Memorable Saturday

My 2007 Birthday's Gift - Wakin 2007 Concert Ticket !!!

Birthday gift from whom ? Of course it's from my beloved boyfriend loh .............. who else ???

At the entrance gate to the concert hall of Bukit Jalil, the security was very tight and they don't allow people to bring cameras into the hall. No pictures allowed. That's why me and my boyfriend were not so dare to take pictures while the concert is on.

Can you see my idiol - Emil Chau's face from the three big screens ????

My boyfriend already tried his very best to take some shots but still, not clear and can't zoom to see Wakin's face clearly. It was really a fun night with Wakin. The concert started at 8.15pm and as people know, Wakin's concert is very much value for money because he will for sure extend the concert till late.

As expected, he announced at 12 midnight that his concert only start now !!!! Ha Ha Hah............. Really ' siow ' eh .................. But of course, we all enjoy very much ! The reason why he announced the concert only start at 12 midnight is because from 8.15pm till 11.30pm, he sang all the unknown or not popular songs until my boyfriend said, wow lau eh !!! Sat there for 3 hours, but still don't know how to sing one song, my God, it's quite impossible for Wakin, such a popular and well known singer that his fans don't know how to sing his songs.

But it's true, at the beginning stage, it's quite disappointing that he chose all his not popular songs to sing and make all of us really just sit there and observing only. Luckily, after the real concert started at 12 midnight, still we feel it's quite worth for money. The concert ends at 1.15am and I poor the event organiser - Axcess for being compound by Bukit Jalil for paying the penalty due to late hand over of venue. Ha ha ha !!!

Thank you, my dear boyfriend for such a good and thoughtful birthday gift of year 2007 !!! I enjoyed it very much and I do appreciated very much what you have done for me. Thank you !!!!

My Members at Toastmasters TLI Training

2007-08-03T01:57:00.000-07:00

28th July 2007 - A Saturday with Toastmasters Members At TLI Training

This Saturday, 7 of the Exco Members of MII Toastmasters Club were at HELP University Building for the TLI Training. Because of full attendance of 7 Exco Members, our Club received a special award and recognition from the Division W. Ha !

Bravo, MII TMC Exco !!!!

These are my Exco Members, from left : My VPE - Leong, my VPPR, Official Photographer, Designer - Ho, myself, my Founder - Mohamad and my SAA - Monsieur. The other two lady Exco - Joyce and Levine left earlier, so they were not in the photo.

Photo on the left : Mike Teng, one of my Club's and Division's star Toastmaster - the third handsome guy from the right.

Photo on the right : Our Division W Governor - Azmi, fourth person from the left.

In fact, my lovely boyfriend also with me in the training. Just that the event is too formal and official for us to be together, I didn't have chance to take a photo with him. After the training, I rushed to my bf's house to have dinner with his family members and relatives at PJ Paris Restaurant. So shamed that have to make all his relatives and family members to wait for me because the training ended quite late and traffic jam. So ' pai seh ' !!!

Port Dickson Family Outing

2007-07-31T02:00:00.000-07:00

9th June 2007, my whole family went to Port Dickson for a family outing !!!

A 2 Days 1 Night Retreat to celebrate Father's Day 2007 !

My boyfriend, myself, my youngest sister's father-in-law and my father. We have steamboat that night at the rent apartment, first in my life time, a vacation department, without water supply and we still manage to eat steamboat ............. by how ? Use the mineral water that we bought to cook loh...................
My mum has a ' memorable' painful trip this time because during we were having our steamboat time, my sister - Siew Bee accidently pour the hot soup on her shoulder and immediately, her nice white snow skin became burning red and next day, a big whole skin peel off. Poor her !

The next day morning, we went to the beach for swimming session. This is me and my lovely boyfriend !!!!

Hey, dear, why people take photo so nice one ???? I also want that kind of pose....................

My sister and her boyfriend !

This is my eldest sister - a mother of two
kids !!!! Still look very young ya ..............
many people said she is my yonger sister coz

she has a smaller body size and she looks

younger than me .................. Pretty neh ???

This is my 13-year-old brother, my father's
only son !He is at his teenage now and always
talk about girlfriend and boyfriend ! Ha !
Zai, what are you doing ? " Ta Kong Fu " arr ?

Sweet Bee & Lian Fung What are you doing, my dear ? Are you
trying to ' bong da jiao ' arr ?
Hahhahaha............

Photo on the Left : Another two lovely couples - Da Jie, Venice and my brother-in-law, Dickson Tan. This is Vjinn's parents loh !

Photo on the Right : Wow ! CK, how I admired you, you have such a strong girlfriend who can put you on her back neh ..................... so fun !!!!

We, the Lim's Family daughters and the only son ! This is me and my sweetheart loh !!!

Three couples with a small lilttle princess ................................

What are you doing, Bee ? Dancing in the middle of the sea ???? See, these three ' leng lui ', who is the most ' leng lui ' one ?????

Lian Fung, another Kung Fu pose again ? Although the weather is so hot, but we are so
happy leh .......................

The happy model family .......................... And this is the handsome model, without comb his hair, without shaving, eventhough without smile on his face, he still looks so handsome and attractive.................. haahahhahaa.............................

13th July 2007 - A Day To Remember !!!

2007-07-13T23:20:00.000-07:00

13th July 2007, Friday - A day which I am real happy ................. it's simply because I have finally made up my mind to quit from my miserable work - my April Fool mistake !

Let's track back the record - I started a new job this year with a very reputable organisation which I dreamed and eagerly want to work for them. Finally, I got the job and I started my new career journey on April Fool Day - 1st April 2007. And, like the day says, it's a real big April Fool for me. ( I am actually not a very superstitious person whom believe in all this ' good day ' or ' bad day ' says ............. but for this, it really seems like next time, if I started something else, a good day must be chosen first ............. ha !)

My miserable day started on the April Fool Day ................ for the first three weeks, I already cannot ' tahan ' with the working culture in that organisation. People there seems like non-educated and non-civilisation....................... ( please forgive me to use these rude words ). Can't imagine these things still happening in such a reputable organisation ( from an outsider's point of view before I joined them ) : -

* Department Head doesn't even know how to use simple Excel

To me, I found it very unbelievable & a lot of ' surprises ' in many things happened in this organisation. For example, after a big conference, there are what happen : -

* Three or Four laptops missing after the conference
* Staff scolded the participants loudly in front of the public
* Staff ignored participants' enquiries by only telling them one ' magic ' word - " I don't know "
* Project Head told a speaker flying purposely from another country, sitting in the plane for more than 20 hours, and on his presentation day, 2 hours before his session, he only found out that his name is not in the Programme and Project Head just tell him : " You are too junior to be on the stage for this session because you are the representative nominated by the original speaker, so, you may give us what you have prepared and we might post it up to the website after the conference. There is no presentation session allocated for you this time. "
* Project Head didn't mentioned clearly in the Programme of a specific session which held at another place from the Convention Center. Early in the morning, a group of 20 foreign participants from Pakistan were at the Secretariat Room asking where is the session room for that particular session. Project Head just tell it's a building which is about 20 minutes away from the Convention Centre, shuttle coach left much earlier without making any announcement, and the group made noise. Project Head just tell one thing, again, one ' magic ' phrase ' : " You don't know how to read the Programme arr ???? "
* Only photostate Programme at the night before and make all staff sleepless night
* Only do insertion on the morning itself, kelam kabut
* Use manual registration method for name tags searching. Half or more than half of the participants can't find their names and at last, just use hand writing to prepare new name tags
* Staff are always the first person who standing in front of all the food counters for food and beverages
* Staff are always the first person who have priority to choose all the sponsored gifts and items
* Staff keep all the good sponsored gifts to themselves rather than give it to participants
* Staff are always have priority in reserved table for food, regardless if the participants have seats or not
* Staff ask for big plastic bags from F & B staff to pack food back home without shy, if no plastic, then they use envelope, standing in front of the food counter and pack the food.

My God, all these small small things make all the participants long faces and went back with complaints only. How to get job satisfaction from this kind of lowsy organisation where only received complaints from clients but never have compliments ?

I claimed myself a Professional Conference Organiser all this while and I have been in this field for about 5 years, never in my history or record that this kind of silly things happened. But it happened this year while I was with this company where the whole 5 days during the conference period, everyday I also get scolded by the participants, speakers, sponsors for lowsy management.

As my boyfriend's say, yes, it's not my fault of all this mistakes, but come on, I am wearing the Secretariat name tag running around the hall, and when people get angry, as long as they see the Secretariat people, they just don't care and just shout at you !!! It's simply I am one of the Organiser, as simple as that.

I hate to be scolded without any reasons, I hate to see all the long faces standing behind the counters, I hate people said I am not professional while I have already done my part professionally....................

I know clearly this is not the place where I can stand, the way they work is exactly like the government department, only one ' magic' word - " I don't know " !!! My god !!!

My boyfriend, my lovely boyfriend, don't know how much my big boss paid him for persuading me to stay on and give another chances, I listened to him and I accepted his sweet talk. I stayed for another big project. Alright, same things happened, same complaints repeated and repeated. I can't stand anymore, I can't stand everyday in the office, colleagues are only spending long hours to write email to scold another colleague and cc the big boss rather than spend the time in planning and at work, I can't stand between colleagues, are only politics and complaints, never have nice words about someone but only complaints and bad words about someone, I can't stand everyday everyone are so scared because don't know if today a good day where the boss is having a good mood, if not, too bad lah !!! Everyone kena scold without any reason, just because she is not in a good mood, I can't stand everyday hearing someone shoutly at each other or sending win pop to the whole office just because a small matter like there is some Milo stains on the pantry. My God, can't you all just spend these time at work and plan for a more organised conference, rather than scolding each other, playing politics or just get scolded by all the unhappy participants ?????

I don't understand, I really don't understand why the big boss can stand all these things happened. He knew, just that he doesn't want to get involved and he chose to be quiet.

Finally, I handed in my resignation letter by giving them 24 hours notice, and I left !!! Hurray !!!! How happy my last day in the company where I know, from that moment onwards, I was free from all these ' April Fool ' thinggy and I won't get myself fool again.

Bravo ! 13th July 2007, after a 3 and a half month suffering, I get my Independence Day again !!!! Although I didn't get support from my boyfriend, family members and even Toastmasters members.......................................

Hurray ! Hurray ! Hurray !!!

Lian Fung's Birthday Celebration 2007

2007-06-14T06:09:00.000-07:00

14th June of year 2007, it's my only brother - Lian Fung's big day !!! It's his birthday !!!

This year, he is already 13th years old. Time really flies so fast, still remember, when he was borned, all of us were really happy because after a long time, not having baby at home, after he was borne, our house becomes so noisy and happy. And so fast, this year, he is already a secondary school boy ! My god, and his sister, me still not married yet. Hahaahahaaa................ sometimes really wondering, how come I never feel that I have been getting old leh ................ hahahaaaa........................

This is him, a very typical my father's son. His behaviour, diet preference, actions, all have my father's shadings. Really like father, like son.

This little chubby boy, got girl friend already. Everyday told me about his girl friend's story. Ha !!!

My boyfriend always said I like to bully my this only brother, he felt that I don't love him enough. Of course lah, my dear, if you compared you with my brother, of course my love to you will definitely much much more than to him loh ............ how can you compared you with him, you will 100% more important than him to me loh................... hahahahaa...............

The Birthday Cake with his name on it and a cute Winnie The Pooh Bear !!!

There is no special birthday celebration for him this year. My parent have a dinner at Semenyih, my boyfriend is at Indonesia for work, the other sisters are all not free, only me and him. I brought him for a ' romantic ' western dinner somewhere near my house. He is happy !!!

Anyway, my this brother is consider good boy lah ! No demanding too much and consider very ' guai ' already.

See, his little chubby face, I always pull his leg by telling him that he is too fat for his age.

Titi Eco Farm Resort - Inspection Trip With Exco

2007-05-19T05:21:00.000-07:00

19th of May, I went for an inspection trip to Titi Eco Farm Resort with my MII Toastmasters Club Exco members. Leong, Ho, Joyce, Levine and I were there for the trip.

I only took a few photos from my camera since we have a professional photographer - Ho there to take pictures for the members.

This was at the ' yao yao chair ' in front of the center hall for adults and children to play !!!

Left : The open-air living hall for us to have first day lunch. Very cooling place with nice view !

Right : The side view of the resort. Two and a half storey, ground floor, is the dining hall with shared bathroom & toilets. 1st Floor, all guest rooms with ceiling fans and the one on the top, pent house - is a big room which could accommodate 10 persons in one room.

Not bad, a good place where promotes healthy living and eating. No air-cond, only ceiling fans. After all meals, guests have to wash their own dishes. Eating all organic fresh food and fruits, drinking herbal drinks, breathing the fresh air, very cooling especially at night. No mosquitos, no worry !!!

Levine was with us at the inspection trip and the right hand side, is the nice organic farm view.

Another nice view from another ankle. Right hand side is the Karaoke Room with TV and AV equipment available. But only very limited VCD, DVD or CD available at the resort. If you plan to have a karaoke session there, don't forget to bring your own CD, DVD or VCD loh !!!

One of the interesting activities organised by the resort - The Salad Making Session. After the staff shared with you how to make the salad, you can also taste it. Hmm.............. yummy yummy ! Delicious neh ................

See the salad dressing at the bottom of the photo ? That's the Durian taste dressing, go along with the green leaves, hmmmm............ you imagine the taste ....................

Mother's Day Celebration 2007

2007-05-13T02:44:00.000-07:00

May 13th 2007, suppose to be a memorial day for all the people in Malaysia due to the May 13th incident in year 1953 ( forgot the year ), but this year 2007, 13th of May is Mother's Day.

We, again, the whole family, except for Dickson and Da Jie's family, are celebrating the festival at Jumbo Chinese Restaurant in Seri Petaling.

We are having breakfast cum lunch = Brunch at the restaurant from 9.30am till 1.30pm. Ha ha ha ha, really eat a lot .................................

See, me and my boyfriend were so happy acting with the ' cha shao bao ' ................... ha ha ha .......

Some photos are not in a good quality due to the unfamiliarize with the new camera still .......... still need time to play around with it .......... give me more time ahhh...........

My mum, see, lady at her late fifty still can keep the beauty like this, really kept me admired on her ................

My niece - Ling Ling !!! Previously she was so cute and pretty, but nowadays, she doesn't look like that anymore................... hmmmm............ maybe the Mummy can do something about it .......................

Sweet Bee - my younger sister with my niece, Ling Ling loh .........

The Brother of Ling Ling - Jun June loh !!! At his cute face expression while facing the camera ...............

This was at night in our house, due to too full the breakfast and lunch that we have in the restuarant, we decided to keep the Mother's Day cake till night, then we cut it at home. See, everybody are in their pyjamas or house T-shirt ! Except me ........... hahahahhahaaa............ coz just came back from ' pat toh ' with my boyfriend mah ..............

See, my brother - Lian Fung ( top right ) looks so outstanding at his yellow shirt in the picture .............. and see the right hand photo, everybody are so happy............ especially my little nephew - Jun Jun !!!

The Mother's Day Cake for my mother, so my mum's name is there loh !!!!

Left : My boyfriend and I were so happy about the ' cha shao bao ' acting !!!

Right : See the loving couple, wearing the T-shirts that we gave them during their 34th Wedding Anniversary Dinner. They really love it very very much !!! They look so ' chan ' oh !!! hahahaa..................

My sister and her boyfriend also also use the ' cha sao bao ' for photo shooting ! Ha hahaaaa............. ( in fact, I and my boyfriend were copying them lah ................ )

This is Me !!!

Me and my boyfriend and my boyfriend and my brother !!!

Left : My youngest sister and her husband - Jun Jun and Ling Ling's parents loh !!! They are same age - two dogs !!!

Right : My parents - Ah Ken and Si Ei, they both also same age - two tigers !!! But look like my mother looks younger than my dad ya ................... although they are same age................. that's why loh, it is so important to keep the beauty loh.........................

Left : Sha sha de look, so boring, play with the camera !

Right : See my sha sha de boyfriend, seems like he is thinking something leh ..........................

Left : They look like a family ya .............................. Right : After trying so many snaps, only we

Mother, Father, Son and Daughter.......................... got this a little bit satisfied photo...................

But they are NOT leh ....................... So cham, everytime me and my boyfriend

facing camera, also don't know what

expression shall we show ....................

hahahahaa........................

Left : My youngest sister's family with my parent ! But this photo his youngest daughter is not there ! Ling Ling, where are you ?

Right : Maid of my youngest sister - Lastry !!! Same age with my eldest sister - 33 years old !!!

World Vision Sponsor's Briefing At PJ Hilton Hotel

2007-05-05T01:10:00.000-07:00

5th May 2007, World Vision is having a " Tribute To Sponsor " at PJ Hilton Hotel. This is basically an introduction to public about World Vision and their Child Sponsorship Programme. A very well done event where I can see quite many forms submitted to the counter for Child Sponsorship Programme.

Dear, I think I meant it when I said : I bought the camera just to keep memory between you and me. See, these three photos are from the same angle and same presentation. Ha ! I was there for about 2 and a half hour, but I only remembered to take out my camera to snap photo at the end of the session - The last presentation of the day. I meant it, dear !!!

The singing presentation was presented by the Harvest Group people, very talented children with good singing skill.

I was so happy for attending this event for two reasons :

1. I met my secondary school classmate - a friend that I have not contacted for 12 years. My god ! Unbelievable, at World Vision event, I met my old schoolmate, what a happy feeling. Ang Suan Yong, sorry for can't even remembered your name. And I was so surprise, after 12 years no contact at all, not even meet up each other for so many years, you managed to call my full name in just about 1 minute time. Suan Yong, you made me shamed lah ........... sorry for my old memory.................. so happy that you managed to recognise me still and remembered my full name. God !!! Let's keep in touch ya !!!

2. My sister's boyfriend - CK and my sister has signed up a child from Thailand - a girl. The purpose I called them there is for them to have a chance to know more about World Vision and Child Sponsorship Programme since everytime I told CK about this programme, he sounded so interested and excited and today, I think it's a best time for him to take action. And he made it !!! And for Levine, she also contributed RM 200 to World Vision as development fund.

CK, Bee and Levine, thanks for your contribution to the child and World Vision and on behalf of World Vision, I would really like to thank you for your kindness and generousness. Because of you all, the world becomes better, because of you all, the world becomes so warm and because of you all, it encourages me to tell more friends about this programme and thanks again for adding my list longer. Thank you from my bottom of heart !!!!

Wesak's Eve Dinner

2007-04-30T23:28:00.000-07:00

Year 2007, Wesak's Eve, I have chance to have dinner with my boyfriend's family and relatives. 30th April 2007, a Monday where most of the people are on leave due to the long holiday for Labour's Day and Wesak holiday, as I mentioned in my " Month End Doubt ", I need to work on this day, that's why I wear a little formal for the dinner with his family and relatives.

After work, as usual, I went to my BF's house to wait for them as my BF took leave to accompany his mother, aunt and cousin sister for shopping. We met up at about 6.45pm and I bought two big " Yip Zhi Mei " pao for his relatives to try, I thought Kuantan doesn't sell " Yip Zhi Mei " big pao, but his aunt told me that she tried it before in Kuantan and it's not a surprise to her. Luckily, his cousin sister has never see such a big pao and it's her first time to eat this pao. Huh !!!

We went to Taman Sri Rampai, near Wangsa Maju to pay visit to his uncle's house and have dinner together. So co-incident, my BF's mum's handphone was not function when we about to reach his uncle's house, and since his uncle owns a handphone shop, my BF immediately bought a Nokia handphone for her mum as Mother's Day gift. His brother, Chee Hong shared the cost with my BF to buy gift for their mum.

Since it's Wesak's Eve, his uncle decided to bring us to a Vegetarian Restaurant for dinner. Really not bad, the restaurant food. I enjoyed the food very much and of course, with my beloved with me, I am very happy to be with his family members too.

Photo above was taken in front of the Vegetarian Restaurant, located at Jalan Setapak after the dinner. This is the first photo that I have taken with his family and relatives. Ha ! Since this is the case, then I must introduce one by one those people in the photo loh : ( from left ) is my BF's only brother - Chee Hong, same age with my youngest sister - Ah Tin / Ling Ling's mother; then his aunt, her youngest daugther and uncle who stay in Taman Sri Rampai, ( front row ) the small cute girl is the eldest daughter of my BF's uncle, behind the little girl is my BF's aunt from Kuantan who was here for holiday, the the lady stand next to my BF in bright PINK colour shirt is my BF's mother loh and those two standing at the back are my BF's cousin sister and her boyfriend from Kuantan. And, need no introduction at all, those two standing at the side from right are myself and my BF loh, hahaaaa...................

After dinner, we went to the Siamese Temple at Jalan Templer, Petaling Jaya - Siam Chentawan Temple to pray for Wesak. We spent about 1 hour there and then go home. That's our Wesak's Eve on 30th April 2007 !!!

Month End Doubts

2007-04-30T01:38:00.000-07:00

Don't know why ......... maybe because of the long holiday imbalance mood ( where most of the people do not need to work today but due to my new job, not entitled for leave yet, forced to come back to office to sit here for no reason ), that's why feeling a little bit down and no mood .............

Luckily there is a place still for me to release my unhappy feeling - My Blog..........

Today, 30th April 2007 ( Monday ), last Thursday was holiday due to the Agong's Installation Day, and come back to work on Friday, one day, then Saturday and Sunday off. Today again come back to work for one more day, tomorrow and Wednesday off again due to the Labour Day and Wesak Day, sigh !!! Really sick.................

For my many years career life, I have never encounter such working experience yet until I joined this company, where I shamed to claim myself a professional conference / exhibition organiser. I asked myself not only once, but many times, what is this company doing ? Why such things can be happened ? Why such a big events and just less than a month to go, participants ask for Registration Form, our answer is : " No form available yet ", I asked around in the office with 5 colleagues, same answes I got from them : " No form one woh, how much arr ? I think RM 350.00. Don't know which account they should bank in the money to us woh, try to give some excuses to delay lah, if can't tahan and they keep on asking the form from you, you refer them to so and so loh. " Oh my goodness ! How can this happen in my company ? My god ! Really feel shame to tell people where I work and what I do............. never have such feeling all this while in my career life till now.....................

For a 2-days conference, due to own personal reason - want to go home early and don't want to stuck in the traffic due to the location of the hotel - Jalan Tun Razak, 1st day the programme finished at 3.45pm and second day, programme ended at 12noon. Still gave a very nice reason : The participants must be very happy one coz they can also go home early or go shopping. Come on lah ! People paid one thousand plus to attend the conference and due to all these unprofessional reasons, my god, still feeling happy and not guilty at all. The worst thing is, the amended final programme was NOT sent to all participants until the first day of registration.

I won't know until one particiapnt came to ask me : " Why you all amended the programme without notifying us ? Somemore remove some well known speakers where we paid purposely to hear / learn from him. And somemore two full days conference, now cut till 1 full day and purposely drag it to two days where 1st day ended at 3.45pm and second day, only 2 session, one before morning teabreak and one after morning teabreak. " My god !!! This kind of comment / feedback, if you were me, how would you answer them ?

I don't know how to answer them but if I were the participants, I know how to ask my question : " Can I get the refund from you for such a lowsy organisation of programme ? " I bet you, if I were the participants who paid the registration fee of thousand dollars from my own pocket to attend this conference, I sure make noise and swear I won't be back again for any events organised by the same company. I will for sure black listed this organiser.

But what to do ........ they don't care, and they do not need to care too........ events line up from Jan till December, full, the whole year calendar was full already !!! They don't care on the participant's feedback coz they do not need to care for, but business still coming in blindly...................

On the other hand, own benefit always come prior to job or professionalism. During teabreak or lunch time, the staff were first to eat, eat even more than the participants, no problem, the best thing is they ' ta pao ' in front of the participants, before they finished the food, before the teabreak or buffet lunch ended, they start taking out their tupperware, their plastic, their big envelopes, or whatever containers to pack food, in front of delegates, in the counter. My goodness ! Now only I know why such staff will still not fired by boss or why still got such unprofessional companies available in this 21st Century to serve ? Now only I know ...............

My deepest sorry to all the participants and really felt shame about it. And to all the sponsors.................

Another question I always asked myself, from the first day I joined this company till now, 30 days, I am still asking the same question : " How long can I stand in this company ? How long can I tahan here ? " Ha ahahaaa... frankly, I also don't now the answer now. I consoled myself with this : " No problem one, think for long, think for future, think for far, the only advantage of this company for me is, when one day, I got married, my priority has no longer at work, I don't find for job satisfaction, my only concern is my family - my babies and my hubby, then I will for sure love this company very much, coz no responsibilites to bear in any mistakes, just pinpoint. As long as your ' tai chi ' skill is good, when make mistakes, you know where to point to, then it's okay already......................."

This is the only excuse that I could find for the moment to ask me to stay still in this company. See lah ! Let's keep an eye and see lah, how long I can stay ..........
And for what reason I stay ............. maybe another way to keep me with the company is to get marry faster, settle down faster ............ so, dear, maybe my boss shall thank you with this ..............

Too long stay in a same environment, too long work in the same working culture, 13 years working in the same organisation, 12 years, 10 years, 7 years, 4 years, 3 years, 2 years, 1 year ............... I felt so lucky I saw this problem and I decided to have a change after 5 years working for the same boss............... huh ............... really feeling so lucky ! Otherwise, I will also become so ' karat ', not even know how to insert a column in Excel.......................

All the best to me and friends who read this, also say a prayer for me in your heart loh .............

Wedding Dinner At Ipoh

2007-04-28T00:23:00.000-07:00

28th April 2007, I and my BF in a car, Ho and his wife + daughter in another car, went to Ipoh for their unimate's wedding dinner. Originally, we plan to depart at about 11am from KL, then Ho said his car was still in the workshop and need to wait till it finished, postponed to 12noon. Again, 12 noon still can't finished, postponed to 1pm. I met up with my BF at Kin San Cafe as he is checking his email and doing his G&S + Toastmasters matters there, so I went there.

Another memorable day for me, as I made a big mistake by leaving a big mark on my tyre ring when I park my car at Kin San Cafe. Don't know why, after so many years of driving, never happened this kind of thing, and yesterday when I went to Hong Leong Bank at Bangsar, I cracked my car bottom, and today, again, at left hand side tyre ring. My god !!!!

Alright, back to the topic, 1pm, me and my BF went to South City Plaza for lunch since Ho is staying there. We waited him till 2.30pm, then only we departed for Ipoh. Halfday gone for nothing but just waiting.

We reached Ipoh at about 5.30pm, and it was a nice experience to get to know this new rental house in Ipoh town. The bridegroom booked a double storey house for us to stay overnight. That house is really a good one, the owner decorates the house just exactly like a hotel, two storey with 3 bedrooms at second floor and one big room at ground floor and one big living hall with Astro TV. All rooms equipped with aircond, carpeted, Astro Wah Lai Toi, fans, they even provide clean towels, soap, bath gel, shampoo and refrigerator. What a luxury house with hotel facilities but paying nuts for the room. For room without attached bathroom, RM 40 per room per night and room with attached bathroom, RM 60 per night, whole house RM 200 per night per house and if stay for two nights, RM 180 per night.

Very convenient, in about 1 minute drive, there is Secret Recipe, with about 3 minutes drive, cross the street, is Food Court and many restaurants surrounded. Good alternative accommodation at Ipoh. The ' hotel ' is located at Taman Ipoh.

The bride and bridegroom, my BF's unimates - May & Alex.

Photo on the left : We and the newly wed couple !!!

Photo on the right : The traditional Chinese wedding culture - " Yam Seng .................... ". See my beloved big mouth ................. he is so happy leh ................ hmm.......... he drinks quite a lot that night .......................

Group photo of all my BF's unimate with the newly wed couple at Tai Thong Restaurant at Heritage Hotel, Ipoh

Me and HIM at the cafe while waiting for Ho to depart for Ipoh................... so bored, two of us ............. having lunch and ' tong shui ' ............. really got nothing to do, take photo loh!!!! Hahahahaaaa.....................

This is the after-dinner-activity, we went to Stairway Pub & Cafe at Ipoh town for drinks. We were there till 2.30am. Poor my dear for really drink over his quota and ' suffering ' there the whole night ...................

See his face, so red huh ??!!

This was the trip to " Sam Poh Tong " with my BF's aunt and uncle on Sunday, 29th April 2007. This is the only photo that I took from my camera because I didn't charge the battery of the camera, when we reached the Caves, this is the first and only photo that my camera can offers. So angry me for having camera but can't use it. So ' pai seh ' is after I took this photo, I asked my BF and his aunt, uncle and cousin to stand together and post for photo, but when I am about to zoom and focus, the battery went died. Angry angry and so angry !!! What to do ?! A lesson learnt for bringing charger together when go on trip. Hahhaa aa................... luckily my BFmanaged to snap some photos with his handphone.

A Retreat Trip To FRIM With IEM G&S Group

2007-04-22T21:32:00.000-07:00

22nd ofApril 2007, another memorable day for me and my lovely boyfriend ! The first time, my boyfriend brought me to join his IEM G&S outdoor activity - we went for a halfday trip to the Forest Research Institute of Malaysia ( FRIM ) at Kepong.

A very greenery, energetic, healthy and fresh Sunday morning.

We gathered in front of FRIM Administration Office at 9am and the guided tour started at about 9.30am. The usual guide that we have from FRIM, the forever experience, talkative and knowledgeable Mr Ang lead us for about 3 hours plus and without stop, he shared with us all his knowledge on trees, plantation, history, culture and etc. Really a very professional guide !

We started with a guided tour at the Museum, air-conditioned Museum and this is the first photograph that we took for the day. Still looked very fresh and pretty handsome oh .............. hahaaaaa...................... Photo taken by Ho, my boyfriend's best friend, another funny handsome young guy - Ho ! Thanks for taking such a nice photo for us !

See, everybody is concentrating on Mr Ang's briefing on the palm oil plantations. A total of 13 of us on the trip. The guy in white on the right is Mr Ang and of course, the one who put his full attention to Mr Ang's presentation is my boyfriend loh - Soh Loh !!!!

Where am I ? Hahhaaa................. holding the camera loh ..................

Another nice picture for memory keeping .................................. Me and HIM at the end of the Canopy Walk .......................

Me and HIM again ! These are two different photos, don't know why, even photos also sticked together, can't separate, I thought only we in person stick together all the time, hahaaaa......... photos also sticked together woh ......................................

What is this ? Lizard leh ............. small lizard changed his colour to the same colour of the leave behind him....................... I nearly can't locate him at the first place, quite difficult to rectify too due to the same colours............... smart animal !!!

What are you doing there with the tree , my dear ? Open leg position ........... hahhaaaaa.................

The weather really hot, I am very tired, thirsty, and hungry ( with only one piece of bread as breakfast then go for such a tiring exercise, ha !) So, while Mr Ang is explaining on one of the trees in the middle of the jungle, I took the chance to take a rest and sat on the trunk, then got catched by my honey ........................ hahaaaa...................

Photo on the left : Mr Ang is passing around a small piece of leave for us to smell, hmmmmm.......... some smell like perfume, very nice; some smell very weird, can't stand for that odour..............

Photo on the right : See, how amazing is the green in Malaysia. In fact, we have also very rich greenery in KL city, do think of a trip to FRIM one day, with your beloved, with your family, with your friends, for a special getaway from the bored city Sunday activities........... Take a closer look at the roots of the tree, so nice and amazing .......................

Big bamboo trees on the left, according to Mr Ang, this is the biggest bamboo trees in Malaysia and see the picture on the right, how nice is the jungle, eventhough weather is so hot but due to all the greens, we feel still cooling and nice with the wind ................

Our group photo - 12 of us plus Mr Ang, who is holding the camera for us = 13 pax, two races, Malay and Chinese, females and males, guys and ladies, handsome and pretty, so happy neh ..............

Me at the Canopy Walk - The couple behind me is the only couple except me and my boyfriend. The rest of them came alone without their partners, leaving their girlfriend at work, leaving their wife at home to take care of children, leaving their boyfriends and girlfriends for their own other activities................. see how nice my boyfriend, bring me along with him for the trip and thanks again, my dear for being so considered and nice to me !!!

Picture on the left : Guess what is this tree ? Don't see it so small but small thing can be very powerful leh ! This is the most famoust tree in Malaysia especially among Malays - Tongkat Ali. Can't imagine leh, so small but yet very powerful. The tour guide - Mr Ang said due to our members are all adults, he allows us to touch the plant and he explained quite a fair bit of this plant too. Not sure if any of our group members ' un-intentionally ' pluck some and bring home for own usage ? Hahaa........................

Picture on the right : Three handsome guys of IEM G&S Group, the left, of course - my beloved, the one in the middle is Mr Ho loh and on the right is the President of the Club, both also my boyfriend's good friends. See, they even without earlier communication, wore the same uniforms to the trip.

Quite many photos for this trip ya ........................ of course mah, must keep for future usage and memory mah ...................... be patient, one more to go only lah ....................................

See how nice the photo on the right, Mr Ang said many international photographers came to FRIM to purposely took photo from this angle to produce postcards, website photo, book covers, magazines and so on. Nice ya ?!

In case you want to plan for trip to FRIM for your family outing, friends get-together and so on, do feel free to log on to http://www.frim.gov.my/ for more information.

Don't forget to quote my name when you talk to Mr Ang as you might get some discount loh................. Hahaaaa........................

My Sister's Boyfriend's Birthday Celebration 2007

2007-04-19T23:20:00.000-07:00

Hi all, since so long I have been quiet loh............ after the Chinese New Year Pulau Perhentian trip, me and my lovely boyfriend have been quiet down for a while coz I am busy to get myself a new career, he is busy with his work as well............ so, not much activities between me and him after February, especially in March ..............

But no roblem, since 14th April 2007, since I have bought my first digital camera in my life, chosen by my loved one - Canon Ixus during the PIKOM PC Fair on 14th April 2007, I will take photos for all the activities from now onwards in order to make my and his life more memorable loh............. hahaaaa................ so happy leh ................

Now, let me share with you some nice photos shot using my brand new camera. The first event after I bought my brand new camera is my sister's boyfriend's birthday - CK's Birthday ! Happy birthday to him and see how nice I treated him, I used my new camera to shoot his celebration as my first event in the camera - " hoi cheong " leh ........................ see, CK, so good I treat you ............ hahhaaaaaa...............

See, the birthday boy ........... cutting his 27th year-old birthday cake ............ hahaaaa...............

Me and my family ........... mummy, daddy, younger sister - CK's girlfriend

My parent so give face and purposely go to Federal Hotel in Bukit Bintang to celebrate birthday for his incoming son-in-law .......... somemore intentionally wore the red colour shirt to symbolise the ' Happy Birthday ' ong ong celebration leh ......... so good de neh ..............

See, my cute cute boyfriend so happy neh ..............

He looks very good in this blue stripes shirt yeah !!!

CK, what happen to you ? Who made you felt so scary ??? My sister ???? hhaaaaa..............

This is me and HIM !!!! My Excellency !!!! Matched ya !!!

My mum said my boyfriend has gained a little bit weight recently and because of that, we looked even more matched !!!! Ha ha hahaa............ My dear blamed me that this was my bad intention to make him put on weight then I will look slimmer ............ what do you think ?

The Yi-Qi Restaurant in Federal Hotel, serves Steamboat Dinner with good Shanghai " Xiao Long Bao " - Chinese Dumpling ...........

The best thing is we do not need to cook our raw food and there is someone serves you the whole night and what impressed me was the way they mixed the cooked dishes with their in-house specialty gravy and sauces ........... made the dishes taste so good and delicious ............. yummy yummy !!!!

See, nice ? The presentation ................ Look at CK's face ......... like so ' cham ' one RM 30++ per head

Last generation .......................... Next generation ...............................

A total of 14 of us in the private room to celebrate CK's 27 year-old birthday, another couple who were holding the cameras were not in the picture..................

A memorable day for CK and Sweet Bee - 19th April 2007

CK's friends bought him a " Bingo Game " as birthday gift !!!!

Side talk - Below is a naughty face of my niece : Vjinn Tan

My Family Members

2007-03-11T22:37:00.000-07:00

Hi, these are my family members loh.............................. take a look ya !!!

My Youngest Brother - Lian Fung : 13 years old !!!

My Pretty Mummy - Jennifer : 57 Years Old !!!! Pretty ya !!!

My lovely Daddy - Ah Ken : 57 years old !

My Youngest Nephew - Dexter : 4 months old !!!

Dexter's Sister - Sweet Sweet Vjinn : 3 Years Old !!!!

The Brother of my Cute Cute Niece - Chun Chun ( 4 years old ) !!!

My cute cute niece - Ling Ling - 3 Years Old !!!

Trip To Fuo Guang Shan - Dong Zen Temple

2007-03-03T00:31:00.000-08:00

On the 15th day / lastday of the Chinese New Year - ' Yuan Xiao Jie ' or Chinese Traditional Valentine's Day, me myself, my younger sister, her boyfriend and my friend - Levine have paid a visit to Fuo Guang Shan - Dong Zen Temple at Banting to join the big celebration.

There were parade going on which included a live " Kuan Yin " sitting on top, some cute small little escorts who followed the " Choi San " and etc. International Religion Stamps Exhibition was in placed, Book Fair with Antiques Exhibition was at the main hall, " Chai Deng Mi " Competition, Flower Exhibition and lots of other activities.

A very happening evening at the Temple !

Can you see the Big Golden Buddha in the middle of the hall ?

See, this is one of the most beautiful temples at Fuo Guang Shan which attracted a long que of people to que up in line to climb up to the top for photo shoots and night bird eye's view of the Banting Town.

* Dragon Dance & The Drum was sponsored by ING Insurance Company !!!

* This is my sister and her boyfriend. They were there to celebrate the " Chap Goh Meh " too !!!

* Another scene on Dragon Dance .................. "

* Pit Lit Pah Lat " ........... "Blang Blang Blang"

It's Fireworks which have been banned by

our government .......... Wow ! So happening

and very happy to see this with the Lion

Dance and Dragon Dance !!!

Trip To Perhentian Island During Chinese New Year 2007

2007-02-19T03:13:00.000-08:00

Hi, all my friends ! This is the trip that I have gone during the Chinese New Year 2007 in February with my beloved boyfriend, my sister and her boyfriend to Perhentian Island in Terengganu state.

Our original plan was to go to southern part of Thailand to celebrate the Chinese New Year long holiday but unfortunately, one day prior to our departure, there was a serious bombing happened in Bangkok, Hatyai, Golok and some southern area of Thailand and this made us changed our plan on the departure day. Instead of going towards north of Malaysia, we switched our sterling to the East Coast of Malaysia as we decided last minute to go to islands.

We were thinking to go to Pulau Kapas as per our initial plan, but again, God is challenging our patience and try to make our life difficult. Pulau Kapas, Pulau Redang and Pulau Lang Tengah all are under monsoon season and on that morning, the waves were so rough and there were no boat to bring us into the islands. The only choice that we have on that day is Perhentian Island where my poor boyfriend had been there for two times already. But what to do ? That's the only choice we have at that moment. So, we all said sorry to my beloved darling and then we were heading to the island with the 30-minute speedboat. ( Of course, we have also obtained permission from my boyfriend for going into the island. Afterall, we are all good people and we don't force people one ! Ha ! ).

So, we parked our car at the Jetty Car Park ( RM 15.00 per day ) and then we proceed to the Travel Agents near the Jetty to look for boat transfers. Upon arrival at Perhentian Kechil Island, we stopped by at a local owned chalet and immediately after I have made a decision to ask for price for one chalet, we decided to take up the rooms. The banglo styled chalet ( with attached bathroom and fan ) costs RM 40.00 per chalet per night and the semi-detached chalet costs RM 35.00 per night. We took 2 units. Very funny thing, we have been staying there for two nights, the chalet owners have never asked us to register ourselves at the counter and not even chase us for payment, we only paid them the room payment upon checking out. Funny !!!

It is a very nice chalet, I love the landscape of the chalet very much. In total, I think there are approximately 40 units of chalets. Very cooling place with all greenery around the chalets, and the chalets are all located in a round shape where in the middle of the chalets, there are trees, flowers and areas for people to rest and sleeping at the hanging bed. So nice, and there is a restaurant where at night, Astro TV is available for in house guests and there are table pool available, some games and chess too.

We stayed in Perhentian Kechil Island for two nights and then we proceed to Perhentian Besar Island. The cost of living in Perhentian Kechil is much more lower than in Perhentian Besar. And in terms of variety of restaurants, beach activities and nights performances, Perhentian Kechil is the right choice. And somemore, there is a place where we can all feed the giant iguanas in the evening. In my this trip, I didn't have the chance to feed the iguanas, only manage to see one in fact in the hot afternoon but during my first visit to the island many years back, I used to feed them. Ha ! There was a funny thing happened when we were seeing the iguana. My boyfriend was scared by my shouting, not the iguana while he was showing me the iguana. Ha ! You know lah, lady likes to scream and shout, and can't help, sorry my dear for this !!!

We spent a night at Perhentian Besar where we stayed in a better hotel named Coral View Resort, a 3 star hotel, RM 120.00 per room per night without breakfast but with attached bathroom, hot shower and aircond ! ha ha ha ............

Overall, we have been snorkeling for fullday ( 10am to 4pm ), we spent a whole hot afternoon to gamble at the watercolour resort open air restaurant for about 5 or 6 hours, my darling and my sister's beloved wanted to do the canoeing but not managed to find time to do it, we have BBQ dinner, we have very good breakfasts and dinners, we have many glasses of fruit juices, we have bought many tit-bits but can't finished.................... all in all, it's a very relaxing trip which I believed four of us also enjoyed the time spent on the island and came back with happy memory !!!

Really looking forward to another happy and fun trip in near future !!!! Hopefully it will come soon......................

Thanks my dear, my sister and my sister's boyfriend for sharing my happiness together during this festive season !!!

Group Photo of All Four Of Us !!!!

The weather is so hot noh .............

See, my boyfriend so serious at the pool table !

Welcome to
Perhentian Kechil Island !

Dear, why you seems so happy and excited while alone but you looked like so frustrated while with me ??? Ha ha haa...........

Hmmm................ sexy sexy ................... in the middle of the sea ..................

Some ' gila gila ' & " soh soh " photos for sweet sweet memory loh .................

What are they doing ? Ha ha ha .........

They are standing at the Jumping Stage and about to jump into the deep water in the middle of the sea .........................

Night Beach Activities in front of the Long Beach Island Resort

See, this is my cute cute boyfriend noh ! Dear, you look good in this picture !!!

Another pair of my travelling companion during my trip - My sister and her boyfriend ! Nice oh ?!

A blur blur face early in the morning at 7.30m on the departure day .......................

See, nice view ! The Jetty at Perhentian Besar Island ....................

Happy Chinese New Year 2007

2007-02-17T01:31:00.000-08:00

This year, I was having a very special Chinese New Year celebration because I have my boyfriend to be with me during the festive season. This is the first Chinese New Year that we celebrated together because we have only started our relationship last Christmas. Ha !

So, it's my first time to meet up with his family members - his mum, his aunts, his uncles, his cousin brothers, his nephews and many other relatives. 4 days before the arrival of the Chinese New Year, my cute cute sweet heart bought a BIG hamper to my house and this was his first time to pay visit to my house to meet up with my parents, my siblings, my brother in law, my niece, my nephew, my aunt and my maids. He was a little bit scared & nervous when first I told him to bring the hamper to my house but after he met up with my friendly family members, he felt relieved although he was bombared by my brother-in-law with tons and tons of difficult questions. However, my sweet heart managed to handle it very well and his " report card " from my family sounded very good on the first impression he imposed to them. Well done, my dear !

Very soon, when the Chinese New Year is just around the corner, and when I thought I will only meet up with my boyfriend's mother on the third day of Chinese New Year, so co-incidently, we got a chance to meet up at Mid Valley for a dinner. That was really an impromptur meeting with his mum without any prior preparation and I was only wearing a T-Shirt. The only feedback from his mum on her first impression on me was : " She is very good at make up & she has a bigger body than my son ! "............ Oh my godness !!!! This was really a hurt comment from someone who carry weight in my heart.

Hmm............ by having optimistic characteristic, I accepted her comment ' happily ' with open heart. What to do ? Who to blame for me to have a small size body boyfriend ? ( But that was quite a painful comment / fact to be accepted )..............

Alright, then moved on to the First Day of Chinese New Year. My boy friend's house has a new ' rule ' or I rather call it a new ' anti-chinese traditional rule ' to apply which was introduced by his cousin sister. All female family members are exempted from going into kitchen on the first day of Chinese New Year and only male family members are allow to do cooking this day. Wow ! This is a real challenge for my cute darling. For having live his life for the past 30 years, he doesn't even know how to operate the gas in the kitchen or has never prepare himself a fried egg or a meal, now the family required him to prepare a presentable dish to be served on the first day of Chinese New Year ???? Wah lau ehh !!!!! Big challenge leh .....................

But still, with my boyfriend's ' Ah Fui's Never Die cum Everything Also Can Spirit ', he managed to cook a Fried Fish with Asam Sauce plus nice decoration to be served and he won the second prize from all the 7 contestants. Bravo, my beloved ! I felt so proud with your excellent performance and talent in cooking just with 4 times rehearsal + training, you were able to cook a delicious dish. So, I think with just a little bit of training, you can definitely be a good chef in future. Dear, I will be more than happy to be your tester. Ha !!!!

Don't forget, you have won a " Frying Pan " in your Wong's family's cooking competition and you can use it for your future cooking session. I am really looking forward for it in near future.

At night, the Mat Salleh boyfriend of my boyfriend's cousin sister has chance to taste the " Yee Sang ".

Me and my family were overnight at my relative's house in Malacca on the first day of Chinese New Year after our visit to Muar, my grandma's house. Second day of Chinese New Year, as usual, me and my family pay visit to all the relatives house. My married sisters, both came from Lukut and Klang to Malacca to reunion with us at my eldest aunty's house and then we proceed to go from one relative's house to another to say hello and Gong Xi Fa Cai with four cars - My dad's car, my younger sister - Bee's car, my eldest brother-in-law's car and my youngest brother-in-law's car.

When we reached Paya Mengkuang Village, my cute cute boyfriend suddenly said he wants to join us for the visit and he came all the way from Seremban to Masjid Tanah to meet up with my relatives. This was really touched and I really felt he is a good boyfriend for being so understanding and kind to me. But poor him because he get bombared painfully this time at Chong's brothers house with numerous, non-stop, many many plenty and tons of questions from my eldest brother in law - Dickson ( the most naughtiest brother-in-law in the world ) and the Chong's Brothers - Andy, Simon, Billy, Wah Chai, Raymond and so on.

Really poor my sweet heart for getting shoot from all of them. Luckily, my boyfriend is strongly enough and skillful enough to overcome all this ' challenges ' in life and finally, he still managed to walk out from Chong's Brother's house in one full piece ! God blessed !

Then after 3 hours plus to be with my family, my darling got to rush back to Seremban again for his dinner at home. Really thanks him for being so caring to me. I love you, nan peng you !!!

Third day early in the morning at 8am, my boyfriend came to Lukut - my youngest sister's house to pick me up to his house in Seremban for breakfast. This is my first time to meet up with his family members and relatives. Wow ! Really a scary session where only after approximately 15 or 20 minutes of meeting up with his mum, right after I stepped out from the living hall of his Aunt's house, my boyfriend's mum has another comment on me again - " His girlfriend has a very big backside and this is good for future production ya ! " Oh no............ aunty.......................

Forth day early in the morning at 3am, me myself, my boyfriend, my younger sister - Bee and her boyfriend departed for Terengganu for a 4 days 3 nights trip at Pulau Perhentian. Originally, we were planning to go to Betong in Thailand but due to the bomb, we changed our plan last minute and turned our sterling to East Coast. Unfortunately, we were thinking to go to Redang or Lang Tengah or Pulau Kapas, but due to the monsoon season, some of the islands are still closed or due to the bad weather early in the morning, only boat to Perhentian Island is available. So, no choice, we got to go to Perhentian Island. Poor my boyfriend again as he has been to the same island for 2 times already and this was his third visit.

A relax and happy 4 days 3 nights trip at Perhentian Island where I gained a lot of weights because except eating, sleeping, gambling, drinking, snorkeling and swimming, we do nothing on the island.

All four of us were burned with black skin due to the hot weather at the island. All 4 of us were having a very happy time at both the Perhentian Kechil and Perhentian Besar Islands. We also got chance to watch the komodo or big iguana on Perhentian Kechil. Where I won't forget that my boyfriend nearly get heart attack with my loud shouting voice when I saw the big iguana. Hahaaaa............. funny nan peng you !!!

On our way back to KL, when we passed by Kemaman, my boyfriend brought us to a nice old historical Kopitiam for nice coffee and charcoal bread. The roti were really nice and I love it very much ! Dinner at Karak Highway Village also a good one, but a little bit expensive.

Reached home at about 8.30pm after a 10 hours drive from East Coast to KL. But still full of fun especially during our return journey back to KL ........... my lovely sister told my boyfriend all my bad things in life and this really made my boyfriend excited and happy !!!

Hahaaaaa.......................... All in all, I really enjoyed myself with this Chinese New Year and always felt so ' xin fu ' to have such a good boyfriend !!!

Voluntary Work With World Vision Malaysia

2007-01-27T02:39:00.000-08:00

WITH WORLD VISION MALAYSIA

The photo was taken during the voluntary work with World Vision Malaysia Office at Berjaya Timesquare Shopping Center for Gift of Hope (GOH) Fund Raising Roadshow on 27th January 2007

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