Hey, all my Blog friends ! How's everybody ? ( It seems like I have a lot of Blog fans .............. hahhahhaah.............. in fact, only myself............... even my hubby also didn't log on to my Blog to read )
Really a lot of things happen recently in life. My last update on the Blog was far behind on 3rd August 2007 where I am still a girl and now, I am writing at an identity of Mrs Wong. Yes ! Within this half year, from August 2007 till May 2008, I have made a very big decision for my life - to marry a man !!!
Hhahhahaa............. as such, I am now no longer " Miss " or ' Girl ', I am a woman ( real woman ) whom carrying someone's surname in front of mine. Or in Chinese, I am now been called as " Ah Soh " or " Aunty " loh......................
Life has changed tremendously after married. For example :
1. Shopping still on, just that visit different stalls. Previously, I went shopping at Mid Valley for shirts, blouses, pants, skirts and etc; now I go Tesco or Giant or Carrefour to compare prices on vegetables, canned food, garlic, milk, Milo and etc.
2. Lunch time : Previously during lunch time I always think of a new place / restaurant to bring my colleagues over for new food or new exploration but now, lunch hour, I have no time to even eat but to buy grocery things or to prepare for my dinner by going to MyDin or Giant to do shopping.
3. Previously, during weekends, I sleep till late and do nothing / go shopping / go for good food / movie, but now Saturday and Sunday is my busy day on house work, cleaning, washing, sweeping, cooking, ironing, mopping and etc.
Not only the above, there are real a lot of difference between a single life and a married life. How to get used to another family's culture ? How to be a good wife and daughter-in-law ? How to be tolerance and compromised between each other ? How to control my emotion towards unhappy things happened in life and so forth.
Have been married and staying at a new house, I still remember, for the first night in the new house, I cried like hell, so sad, so pityful and so unhappy. Just for a simple reason : I missed my parents, I missed my brother, I have home sick ! Coz I didn't feel the same love in the new house. Things changed too fast until I can't cope and get used to it.
A lot of tears have been flowing through my face recently - all over some small minor issues in life............. I got to really learn how to be tolerance, compromise and be happy towards my new life.
Time to go home to cook now, got to keep my blowing feeling for next time.
Cheers ! Hope all my family members and friends are happy !!!
Monday, May 5, 2008
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